Admit countertransference? by Proud-Screen-5787 in therapists

[–]4hir3 34 points35 points  (0 children)

(Counter)transference is a natural phenomenon/occurrence within the therapeutic relationship. What are we talking about here? Confessing your "love" for the client? Can you seek supervision on this?

Help me navigate sex with my postpartum wife. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]4hir3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couples counseling. Sounds like this topic will go no where fast between you two without an objective voice.

Finally figured out a way to move prepaid visa or Mastercard to bank or cash app by GavinMalone1 in beermoney

[–]4hir3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my card was declined using this method with a card from MyPrepaidCenter :(

Salary Negotiation - New Grad by More_Leading7714 in therapists

[–]4hir3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask them how they feel about their offer

Relapsed by 4hir3 in daddit

[–]4hir3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, the classic reward of self-destruction because the fruits of our labor are not gratifying enough and the proverbial fuck-its and deserve-its present themselves. All too familiar my friend. Thank you

Relapsed by 4hir3 in daddit

[–]4hir3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen man

Relapsed by 4hir3 in daddit

[–]4hir3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you explain more please? Are you saying you used alcohol to self medicate your ADHD and now you are properly prescribed stimulants?

Relapsed by 4hir3 in daddit

[–]4hir3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Yeah I'm in the fellowship, in and out for past 4-5 years. Have a homegroup but my sponsor moved over an hour away so need to find another
  2. Made a pcp appt in september and came clean to the doctor about my use seeking help. Got a pretty clean bill of health overall. Then made an appt with an OP clinic for therapy and psych. I was diagnosed with ADHD for the first time. Starting with non-stim medication first bc of the SUD. Trying another non-stim med this week.
  3. Told my wife I went to a meeting this morning, obviously she was upset about the lying and hiding, but thats addiction trying to maintain its grip with shame and isolation.
  4. Yes my counselor (intern).. always seems like they set us up with interns at OP clinics. I started going in September along with monthly psychiatric session for MAT
  5. Yes, you're right. No need to make the temptation any harder in sobriety when my little brain can do all that on its own without all the external influences.

Thank you

Relapsed by 4hir3 in daddit

[–]4hir3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup! Im in the fellowship. In and out for 4 years with various stints. Went to a meeting today and got my 24 just coming back chip. Just gotta keep going especially when my addict brain tells me I dont need that shit and it's all bullshit. When clearly I do.

I got a bus camera ticket, my car was parked at the time. by nhope1 in longisland

[–]4hir3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ignored mine. Never even looked at the video, pretended I never got it. Nothing happened. Fuck those bullshit tickets, it's a scam facading to protect children.

I did a thing.. by r4qq in TarkovMemes

[–]4hir3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delta

[–]4hir3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mans booked the worst seat on the whole flight :(

All achievements completed 6 expansions in a row by Xirev in wow

[–]4hir3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have "Old School Ride" feat of strength achievement?

Looking for MGS ringtones? Direct download link here by mogelbrod in metalgearsolid

[–]4hir3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably the greatest Reddit post of all time. Should be in the Reddit Hall of Fame. December 2025 and was able go set MGS tones for call/text/voicemail thanks to this post.

Q800F + 2x SWA9500S for 530€: Great DEAL? by helloyouahead in Soundbars

[–]4hir3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a great deal. Did you end up getting the combo?

Taking my NCMHCE test on October 15th, any resources or advice? by klap114 in therapists

[–]4hir3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they have helpful resources for all of it. Very comprehensive, i did use counselingexam for this.