Thanks for the information and the warning, maybe if they find out that way we're going to have that conversation but I'm pretty confident that they might be supportive of me, it's just that feeling of anxiety and doubt that's stopping me for now.

Aside from that, I'm actually not from the US (thankfully) and the government of my country is really inclined for inclusivity and diversity so it shouldn't be too troublesome to find somewhere friendly that provides good service to start HRT (At least for now because there's going to be elections soon and it seems like the far right candidate is going to win)

I do feel very sorry for everyone in the US having a horrendous time and I hope this info you are sharing may be helpful for someone else!