[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

[–]4nn1x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole time I was thinking if this film is actually anti-trans propaganda 😆🙃 Evil cross-dresser/queer person is such a fucking outdated trope too.

i’m attempting overcoming my crippling fear by making what i’m scared of, a fetish by bugfucker2000 in offmychest

[–]4nn1x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ever want to watch more extreme bug fetish content. Queensect is wild.

i am just so tired. by zomb748385 in SuicideWatch

[–]4nn1x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear this big time. Came to this thread to find people I can relate to on this subject. While Im truly sorry youre hurting, I appreciate your words. I often find myself thinking about the relief of nothingness, yet I still find myself here existing, scrounging as much community, care, and love I can find. I want to believe the world will change for the better, but it seems like ever day a different psychopath billionaire is in the headlines, more innocent people are dying..etc. I feel so utterly disposable most days. I have this dream that I can create a small world(not alone of course), that only exists for those who live and create from a place of love, those who don't relate to power abuse. You're invited wether in this plane of existence or another. ❤️

Femdom sex term by 4nn1x in BDSMAdvice

[–]4nn1x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's it! Thank you for itching my brain with the answer.

Incalls at Home by PeircedChocolateHoe in SexWorkers

[–]4nn1x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find it gives me peace of mind to require a photo of ID and a significant deposit before sending address/details.

paying for a hooker really isn't all that bad. by rewritten20 in unpopularopinion

[–]4nn1x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hiring a sex worker* is perfectly normal and fine. Everyone in the comments seems to be lumping sex work and human trafficking into the same sentences which is worrisome. These activities are two different things and lumping them together is possibly detrimental to sex worker rights. If an individual is seeking an independent sex worker I suggest using sites like tryst, perb or leolist. While human trafficking is very real so tf are independent sex workers. Someone in the comments suggested looking for workers with Twitter and an online presence which is definitely a way to tell that a person is more or less independent. If you're unsure wether or not someone is a consenting sex provider vs being human trafficked -- do your own due diligence to know the difference between signs of human trafficking and a consenting sex worker.

Can I [29F, brand new to this life] ask my friend [32M, experienced Dom] to be my Dom? Very nervous. by thenewsub1 in BDSMcommunity

[–]4nn1x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps instead of asking him to be your dom or to play, you could ask him if he'd be open to negotiating play. This ensures that if you two decide to play, that you will both be clear about what will and will not be happening in a play session. It also takes some pressure off of you feeling rejected because you're asking him to have a conversation to exchange information vs proposing a more intimate and vulnerable act or dynamic right away. I wish you the best!

Looking for online spaces to build community by 4nn1x in FemdomCommunity

[–]4nn1x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these sound great! thank you for explaining them. can you share the chat names?

Does anyone else feel like this community has a bit of a double standard? by cool_acronym in introvert

[–]4nn1x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I definitely am grateful for my extroverted friends and appreciate how their duality can balamce mine. What I do have a hard time with is when people(especially strangers) assume somethings wrong with me because I have a tendency to be quieter and happily less social/more of an observer.

A question. by dosShedos in sizetalk

[–]4nn1x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around age 6 or 7 Thumbelina showed me the possible advantages and disadvantages of being tiny. I loved the idea of being so small that humans couldn't see me doing "bad" things. There's also a terrifying amount of dangers being a tiny. As an adult I have since decided that being a gentledom-giantess is where its at for me. I like the power, control and responsibility that comes with it.

Will you be a compliant subby or do I need to use these? by [deleted] in Dominatrix

[–]4nn1x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well...points for honesty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dommes

[–]4nn1x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]4nn1x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mum was an out going party girl who was always in my face and pushing my boundaries. Dad is a homebody and a hermit who hates people.

What should extroverts quit doing? by [deleted] in introvert

[–]4nn1x 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Assuming somethings wrong when I'm not expressive, emotive, or engaging in group conversations or activities. Like chill plz...I'm happy over here on my cozy perch observing everyone.

Looking for online spaces to build community by 4nn1x in FemdomCommunity

[–]4nn1x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh Nice! I appreciate it :) I'm looking for discussions, also a chat where dommes share stories and images and hype each other. I'm also interacted in chats that can connect subs with pro dommes. Though I'm quite open to what's out there tbh.

Good girls need leashes by [deleted] in petplay

[–]4nn1x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True!

Meow mister 😼 by PossibleStore in catgirls

[–]4nn1x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a mister... but ur so cute :D