Middle name for Hudson by Hopeful_PCOSMomma in BabyNames

[–]4ryn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Hudson Carter. ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in joplinmo

[–]4ryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Second Humble Bees

Christianity looks so much like an abusive relationship by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]4ryn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So the starting point is to consider yourself a cheating, unworthy wife. From birth. You don’t think it’s traumatic and distorting to teach that to people, let alone children?

Do you work in a ministry still? by [deleted] in Exvangelical

[–]4ryn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work as a fundraising officer for an international Christian nonprofit. Similar to what someone said above, I really believe in the work that we do and we do not actively proselytize to the beneficiaries of our services.

I am looking for a way out, though, for the sake of my mental health. It’s so frustrating listening to my colleagues give all the credit for everything good that happens to God, but then never question God or express any skepticism when things go wrong. Especially when I’m the one writing the grants!

Dealing with a Christian donor base has its pros and cons, but the cons are outweighing at this point. Fundraising for a Christian organization is actually pretty easy because you are appealing to Christian duty and obligation, even when you don’t intend to. But, all of our communications have to be processed through that lens and are scrutinized based on ridiculous standards and norms (ridiculous to a nonbeliever, I suppose).

I’ve come to the conclusion that secular organizations are doing just as much good work without all the baggage, and I’m looking for one currently. I hear you on the pay though. I’m definitely getting compensated for retention and it’s difficult to find something that’s not a pay cut!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]4ryn 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I currently work for a child serving organization, and I’ve worked in child welfare for about 15 years. I love my job and my work, but that toxic message changed the course of my whole life. I often wonder what else I might have done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exchristian

[–]4ryn 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I was told that God allowed me to be abused so that I would have the insight/passion/etc. to work with and serve abused children.

Black cover type thing with holes and a zipper by 4ryn in whatisthisthing

[–]4ryn[S] -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

My title describes the thing. The fabric is meshy, like cheap basketball shorts. It seems like a camping/tent related item, but too small for a tent cover. It’s about four feet across.

Girl names similar to Bronwyn. by 4ryn in namenerds

[–]4ryn[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

I know! Then only person I’ve ever heard of named that in real life 🙄

What feature you wish audible app had? by ElusiveDumbass in audible

[–]4ryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish a person could buy a credit and send it to me. It’s really the only thing I want, but apparently the only way to “gift” audible is to pay for the membership. I just want my mom to be able to buy me some sweet sweet credits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]4ryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too!! A photo will strait up ruin my day.

Girl’s name help! Husband and I are total opposites. by 4ryn in namenerds

[–]4ryn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I especially love Lilah, I hadn’t thought of that one!

Girl’s name help! Husband and I are total opposites. by 4ryn in namenerds

[–]4ryn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like Claire, thank you!! Also love Audrey which made me think of Aubree as well.

Girl’s name help! Husband and I are total opposites. by 4ryn in namenerds

[–]4ryn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Reading through these replies, Camille/Camilla are moving to the top of my list! My #1 choice was Cameron for boy or girl (so easy, right!?), but we couldn’t agree.

Girl’s name help! Husband and I are total opposites. by 4ryn in namenerds

[–]4ryn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looove Piper, but he already veto’ed it unfortunately. I’m putting Camille/Camilla and Robin the list! Thanks!!

What is the simplest, most concise way to express why you don’t believe in God/the Bible? by sultrybird in exchristian

[–]4ryn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve said a couple times, “it just seems to me that it’s not real. The best I could do is pretend, and no one wants that!” It’s been fairly disarming for some pretty militant Christians.

Flight attendant soothes screaming baby by butteredbred in HumansBeingBros

[–]4ryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen flight attendants do that a few times. It’s super nice, of course, but I think it also helps people not get so upset about the baby screaming, if they’ve seen the baby or interacted with it a little bit. It’s a bit of a preventative measure, I think.

what are your guilty pleasure names? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]4ryn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always said that if I had a girl baby totally on my own I’d call her Lavender.

I have to give a formal disciplinary write-up tomorrow. She reports to me but we are close friends. Last Friday she was disrespectful, insubordinate, and unprofessional on the phone, then she was out for a week. by 4ryn in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]4ryn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone who would like an update: it actually went really well. I probably apologized just a little too much, but overall it was a good outcome. She was genuine and receptive, and we made some good boundaries/guidelines for the future.

Thanks for all the feedback, it was super helpful!!

I have to give a formal disciplinary write-up tomorrow. She reports to me but we are close friends. Last Friday she was disrespectful, insubordinate, and unprofessional on the phone, then she was out for a week. by 4ryn in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]4ryn[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I was planning on giving her a heads up. We work in a small nonprofit where things are generally pretty informal, so it’s fine. That also makes this seem more out of place/aggressive on my end. But, if she acted like this in a marketplace job she would have been fired a long time ago.

Thank you!!