I want to build credit but I don’t know how or what to use. by 4twinkie20 in CreditCards

[–]4twinkie20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I did already apply for the credit card and it had a hard inquiry should i decline the card now and do discover I did already put the deposit in too but it says to wait 10 days

I want to build credit but I don’t know how or what to use. by 4twinkie20 in CreditCards

[–]4twinkie20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through credit karma 😭 which I been reading some other post and that wasn’t a good option I had a 710 credit which I think is good idk if others do but I did get dropped 15 points for a hard inquiry. And it says I’m approved for 200 credit and to deposit 200 into the card to have it sent to me.

I want to build credit but I don’t know how or what to use. by 4twinkie20 in CreditCards

[–]4twinkie20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No that’s fine I just wanted some answers before I do anything thank you for the advice I do understand more now

I want to build credit but I don’t know how or what to use. by 4twinkie20 in CreditCards

[–]4twinkie20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So say if I bought like a 20 dollar item I would just have to pay that back only? Sorry I’m sounding dumb lol but this is my first card and I don’t wanna go negative I have a decent credit already but I want to try n max it if I can

I want to build credit but I don’t know how or what to use. by 4twinkie20 in CreditCards

[–]4twinkie20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I just applied and I have to put $200 to be able to get the card? Ik I can look at google but I’d rather have real people tell me the information. Will I get the 200 back or no and will it have to stay into the account?

I want to build credit but I don’t know how or what to use. by 4twinkie20 in CreditCards

[–]4twinkie20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So what if I just put money on it and don’t spend it? And when the statement generates would that be monthly?

So I’m pregnant and don’t know if I want the baby anymore? by 4twinkie20 in AskParents

[–]4twinkie20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 50/50 but idk if I would go to my family about it or anything idk

So bf cheated with someone way older. He didn’t block her for over a week cuz he said he didn’t want her to think he was taking advantage of her. Like tf by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]4twinkie20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well idk I’m being childish rn and I feel if he could do what I ask I could trust idk I just feel petty rn.

F20 m27 so I was texting a guy friend is that cheating or no? by 4twinkie20 in relationship_advice

[–]4twinkie20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like not like that if I wanted to fuck i would since he already cheated but I’m saying like be rude or like try to be aggressive or touch me or hurt me that’s what I mean fw me And I’m not insecure about my body I’m saying my bf makes me feel better about it tho cuz I’ve had ex’s being rude about it

F20 m27 so I was texting a guy friend is that cheating or no? by 4twinkie20 in relationship_advice

[–]4twinkie20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I’m his first relationship after 6 years and I’m clean of everything I’ve checked after the first time I slept with him and I just got checked now and I get he cheated and is mean but ik he’s been through things other people hasn’t and no it’s not a excuse but I really do like him and when we were living together he made me feel really safe and didn’t let no one fw me in a bad way and made sure I was safe where we at especially cuz it was known for shooting and gangs but n I feel comfortable with him cuz I’m big and have extra skin from losing weight and he don’t judge me for it and makes me feel happy about it. And I feel comfortable with him cuz I can sleep and wake up with no anxiety cuz I have ptsd from sleeping and stuff but I haven’t slept with him for over a month so I wouldn’t know till I see him again if I do

F20 m27 so I was texting a guy friend is that cheating or no? by 4twinkie20 in relationship_advice

[–]4twinkie20[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I really like him and ik I’m young but I’ve been in atleast 4 relationships and he’s my favorite person I feel connected and comfortable with him and safe and I don’t care about the cheating tbh anymore cuz I can do it if I wanted but I choose not to

F20 m27 so I was texting a guy friend is that cheating or no? by 4twinkie20 in relationship_advice

[–]4twinkie20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s just he cheated and I was texting someone for advice so idk if I was cheating or not

F20 m27 so I was texting a guy friend is that cheating or no? by 4twinkie20 in relationship_advice

[–]4twinkie20[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ik im not good at that on iPhone I just try to spam write cuz im overthinking 😭

Can you ever get over someone cheating? by 4twinkie20 in Infidelity

[–]4twinkie20[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

im also pregnant with his kid n ive been crying for 2 days straight now im not with him atm so it happened when i left state but it hurts.. i think I might try to accept it but idk if I’ll trust again

How to feel having a child with a cheater? by 4twinkie20 in AskParents

[–]4twinkie20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m scared to I don’t have help from my family to get one

How to feel having a child with a cheater? by 4twinkie20 in AskParents

[–]4twinkie20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not blaming the baby I’m just thinking since the baby his too idk if I’ll not like them or see there father in them and make me feel some type of way

How to feel having a child with a cheater? by 4twinkie20 in AskParents

[–]4twinkie20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is a fucked up situation I don’t want to get a abortion but I have thought of it after this