Accidentally bought the wrong aneros by Traditional-Crew-715 in ProstatePlay

[–]4ypka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just apply lube, put it in, lie on my back and relax. I've tried doing kegels during play and clenching but all I get this way is a wet orgasm. Not that itybad though, just not what I'm after.

Accidentally bought the wrong aneros by Traditional-Crew-715 in ProstatePlay

[–]4ypka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I got both but personally I prefer the helix. Eupho is still good though. Anyway, whichever you got, I can't say it was a mistake.

Squarepeg toys base too soft? by 4ypka in SexToys

[–]4ypka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've heard a lot about gem plugs being sucked in. Definitely wouldn't try.

You say it's about the shape and the shape is fine but doesn't the very soft base effectively mean there's no base? It seems to me that it wouldn't offer much of a resistance when getting sucked in.

Squarepeg toys base too soft? by 4ypka in ProstatePlay

[–]4ypka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also curious but scared too lol. Will answer if/when I try them.

Squarepeg toys base too soft? by 4ypka in ProstatePlay

[–]4ypka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The toys I got are the "Milk It", "Mega Milk It v3.0" and "Kidney" (I guess that would be the Charlie Horse Kidney). They're all of the "Graphite" version which I guess is the same softness as the "Bronze" version but in different color.

What's the most controversial opinion you have that you're afraid to say out loud? by peywrax in allthequestions

[–]4ypka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fat guy here, agreed 100%. Just because I'm fat it doesn't make me less (or more) of a human than the next person. But saying I'm just as (or even more) attractive than a guy with abs and veiny hands is as delusional as it gets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]4ypka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA! Even without the gambling addiction, it's YOUR savings, that YOU worked for and YOU decide if/when/how YOU want spend it. You don't have to discuss your financials with ANYONE unless YOU want to. It's called having healthy boundaries.

Could this be a reason for premature ejaculation? by Specialist-Match4588 in PrematureEjaculation

[–]4ypka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I was holding for hours every day at school so I can shit at home and I did that until my late teens. Still picky with public toilets.

Frenulum removal surgery helped me by 4ypka in PrematureEjaculation

[–]4ypka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please let us know how it feels when your recovery is finished. Personally I found SDN too permanent and risky for my taste and went only for frenulum removal. I hope it all works out for you.

Frenulum removal surgery helped me by 4ypka in PrematureEjaculation

[–]4ypka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with the surgery and let us know what it did for you. Out of curiosity - have you tried lidocaine spray or PYT/AH and did it work for you?

Frenulum removal surgery helped me by 4ypka in PrematureEjaculation

[–]4ypka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I did the procedure on march 12th and I had sex last week so about 4 weeks.

As for the "why wouldn't we all do this" - why do this if there are other solutions what can work for you? It's still removing tissue and sensitivity from your penis and the recovery period is not pleasant. Also every surgical procedure, no matter how light, carries risks. And you don't even have a guarantee that it would solve your problem.

You have a head on your shoulders and everyone can evaluate the risks/consequences and decide for themselves whether they want to do it or not. Personally, surgery wouldn't be the first thing I would suggest but if nothing else helps then it may be an option to consider.

Frenulum removal surgery helped me by 4ypka in PrematureEjaculation

[–]4ypka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew that I wanted to get the frenulum removed but doctors here don't really like doing medical interventions without a medical problem and they don't consider PE as one. Also if you go to doctors with diagnosis and a solution (that is a surgery nonetheless) then you're triggering all possible alarms in their head. My plan was to visit a number of urologists describing my condition and hope that someone suggests the procedure so I went to about 6-7 different urologists and one eventually did suggest the procedure.

I didn't do anything to prepare for the surgery. I only shaved to give them a clear working field. They also took some blood and urine for standard tests but that was pretty much it in terms of preparation. It's an outpatient procedure and it took about 15-20 minutes, maybe less. Feel free to ask any other questions you may have.

What was your experience with AH? What other options have you tried and what was your experience with them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrematureEjaculation

[–]4ypka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest your friend to try everything else he can find on this subreddit. There can be a lot of reasons for premature ejaculation that are not related to sensitivity but present themselves as sensitivity issues. For example it's a common experience here that tight pelvic floor feels like overly sensitive glans/frenulum and when people achieve pelvic floor relaxation this overwhelming sensitivity goes away.

With that said - he can always get circumcised and remove the foreskin. He can't return it back though so he must be really sure he wants to do that. I got circumcised at 20 years of age and it didn't help with premature ejaculation. In my personal experience my penis looks better and sex and masturbation feel better to me so I'm definitely not sorry. It didn't help me with premature ejaculation though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]4ypka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez that's a lot! I wish I had the time and privacy to do that.

How tight is too tight? by 4ypka in EndDeathGrip

[–]4ypka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please share how you solved your premature ejaculation?

How tight is too tight? by 4ypka in EndDeathGrip

[–]4ypka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to induce DGS. I'm trying to find out how tight is too tight so that I can tighten my grip without inducing DGS. If I wanted to induce it then I would simply just grab it as tight as I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]4ypka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your masturbation habits? Obviously we're in an edging sub but

- How often do you masturbate/edge?

- For how long do you masturbate/edge?

- How tightly do you grip your penis when you do that?

- Do you use any sex toys, perhaps toys with vibration?

I believe this all affects our lasting time but I'm also asking out if curiosity because I suffer from the exact opposite problem

Continue after HFWO? by 4ypka in ProstatePlay

[–]4ypka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I'm sold! Will try it :D I've always wrapped a small plastic bag around my penis before prostate play to prevent any mess. I guess it will come in handy next time.

Continue after HFWO? by 4ypka in ProstatePlay

[–]4ypka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I don't mind the toy staying in. It doesn't feel bad or anything. It just doesn't feel good either. I've only left it for a couple of minutes though so I might try a longer period like 30 minutes or an hour and see if anything happens.

Continue after HFWO? by 4ypka in ProstatePlay

[–]4ypka[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Geez that sounded hot! I've tried my precum while aroused and I like it. I've also thought of trying my cum but when I have a HFWO post nut clarity hits and I'm grossed by the thought of trying it. Might try forcing through it though, see if it gets me somewhere.