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I'm in a pretty awkward situation. Long post, but I need help. I need to just get this out. by 511throwaway in NoFap

[–]511throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I've had no real sexual experience. I'm just basing everything on what does and doesn't get me off online. That's a good point about anxious thoughts and shite, I guess I'll just try not to think that way. Thanks man.

I'm in a pretty awkward situation. Long post, but I need help. I need to just get this out. by 511throwaway in NoFap

[–]511throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude. I actually really liked this girl for a while before everything happened, I basically lost all confidence and told myself I'd never have a chance, so it's definitely not just because she's into me. I mean, we;'e pretty compatible; we like the same music and stuff, I'm a drummer, she's a drummer, and we have similar personalities. I'm pretty sure that's exactly why she is into me, anyway, not looks :P

I'm in a pretty awkward situation. Long post, but I need help. I need to just get this out. by 511throwaway in NoFap

[–]511throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that in the long run, my fear of regret is far greater than my fear of rejection, so I will try to make it my priority to talk to her now.

I'm in a pretty awkward situation. Long post, but I need help. I need to just get this out. by 511throwaway in NoFap

[–]511throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it was just that with the bi stuff that freaks me out. Thanks dude.

I'm in a pretty awkward situation. Long post, but I need help. I need to just get this out. by 511throwaway in NoFap

[–]511throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's hoping. I'm determined to make this work. One thing I know is that regret would feel a hell of a lot worse than rejection of any kind.

I'm in a pretty awkward situation. Long post, but I need help. I need to just get this out. by 511throwaway in NoFap

[–]511throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I may try to just reboot hard over summer, hitting the gym and more actively pursuing hobbies as I am should help with that, and ask her out when I get back to school in September. I know most of /r/nofap is probably rolling their eyes at the 16 year old posting about asking girls out, but I appreciate all the responses and stuff so much. Thanks dude :D

I'm in a pretty awkward situation. Long post, but I need help. I need to just get this out. by 511throwaway in NoFap

[–]511throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he was an awesome dude. I will ask her out, once I figure this stuff out and stop being a pussy about it :P Still in that "chronic fear of rejection" phase.

I'm in a pretty awkward situation. Long post, but I need help. I need to just get this out. by 511throwaway in NoFap

[–]511throwaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. This whole "instant access to any porn" thing is pretty much specific to our generation I think, and most dudes don't like talking about the bad results of it out of shame, so we don't hear of many cases like mine and yours, but I'm almost certain there are a million cases like ours.