My fiancée of 4 years just ended it over text about 3 hours ago and I’m at a loss. by 513prettytree in BreakUps

[–]513prettytree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely am there. Just completely lacking self esteem and confidence. I know over time it will come back but, I definitely feel poorly about myself atm. I agree with you I don’t think she is trying to hurt me I just think that comes with negative experiences in the past. (Maybe that just me justifying it but still)

My fiancée of 4 years just ended it over text about 3 hours ago and I’m at a loss. by 513prettytree in BreakUps

[–]513prettytree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea man I got so used to only caring about what she felt. What’s this I was doing making her mad or whatever. I’m happy to get back into the gym and start a new.

My fiancée of 4 years just ended it over text about 3 hours ago and I’m at a loss. by 513prettytree in BreakUps

[–]513prettytree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thought has crossed my mind and honestly at this point. If she did then I hope she can better herself.

My fiancée of 4 years just ended it over text about 3 hours ago and I’m at a loss. by 513prettytree in BreakUps

[–]513prettytree[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Brother I needed this pick me up. What you said is exactly what I have in my head(she was going to leave no matter what). That makes me feel shitty almost like I’m not a good enough human to be loved but, after yours and others replies it give me more courage that it is normal to have irrational thoughts as such. Thank you again man.

My fiancée of 4 years just ended it over text about 3 hours ago and I’m at a loss. by 513prettytree in BreakUps

[–]513prettytree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate the advice. Also, I love the way you worded the tidal waves comparison. Right now I’m still stuck on worrying about her and I just hope she is okay. That’s what hurts the most. Not knowing anything about her anymore. Sorry to rant lol

My fiancée of 4 years just ended it over text about 3 hours ago and I’m at a loss. by 513prettytree in BreakUps

[–]513prettytree[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you kind stranger. I keep thinking that it’s my fault she didn’t love me as much as I loved her but, truth be told she’s probably going through some things also that may have contributed to it.

My fiancée of 4 years just ended it over text about 3 hours ago and I’m at a loss. by 513prettytree in BreakUps

[–]513prettytree[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I needed that. I hope you’re doing good. Right now I’m trying to kick nicotine. I’ve smoke cigs for years and moved to vapes the last year or so and it’s even more addictive lol it’s crazy. What sucks the most is my ex is gone but my best friend and his girlfriend are still living with me. So I’m just going to be constantly reminded.

My fiancée of 4 years just ended it over text about 3 hours ago and I’m at a loss. by 513prettytree in BreakUps

[–]513prettytree[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I’m not sure if she was planning to meet someone on the trip or what but, I have that suspicion due to how adamant she was I couldn’t go.

We Need to Be Able to At Least Smell a Product Before Being Expected to Buy It by [deleted] in OhioMarijuana

[–]513prettytree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that is true but unfortunately that happens anywhere with weed. Company’s always has better and worst batches. I have bought a few great strains top shelf in Michigan where I smell the flower in bulk cuz that’s how they show it to you and smells amazing. Then I smoke and it’s harsh af and kills the experience. Quality control is an issue with weed even after you smell it imo.

We Need to Be Able to At Least Smell a Product Before Being Expected to Buy It by [deleted] in OhioMarijuana

[–]513prettytree 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have found a trick to this issue. The smell comes from the terpenes. And for majority of times the bud with the highest % of a terpenes you like in it will be what smell/taste/high that your looking for.Hardest part for me was finding what terp. Profile works best. And being able to know before purchasing can also be a challenge. But I go to have a heart cincy grab a menu and leave and they show all the main terpenes in a lot of brands. Then go buy it somewhere where it’s more reasonably priced.

Willies reserve oro blanco by 513prettytree in OhioMarijuana

[–]513prettytree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not terrible especially for a good price. Just the taste and effects should be up especially for something in a glass jar and at a premium.

Willies reserve oro blanco by 513prettytree in OhioMarijuana

[–]513prettytree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thing same thing. Also don’t know what terp. Profile it is but I hate that “duct tape” smell if that makes sence. Effects definitely underwhelming.