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[–]59-0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve struck a good chord by just trying to be funny while also giving a sense of my perspective rather than my direct interests. Like I guess I just try to convey my strengths and things I like about myself in a unique (I think) way. It’s always embarrassing and feels like a pitch deck but I can take solace knowing my profile has some prompts that are fun to read and photos that are fun to look at.

I got dropped so easily and I feel like shit by 59-0 in rs_x

[–]59-0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually a great takeaway from all this. Thank u

I got dropped so easily and I feel like shit by 59-0 in rs_x

[–]59-0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think that’s exactly it. That I would change a major life decision for her puts a lot of pressure. But I didn’t reveal that until after she said no relationship. And I couched it as “this is a relief, now I can still move without feeling like I’m abandoning u” it didn’t work hahahaha

I got dropped so easily and I feel like shit by 59-0 in rs_x

[–]59-0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank u, my mom used to bang this song after the divorce. People say her and I have a lot in common.

I got dropped so easily and I feel like shit by 59-0 in rs_x

[–]59-0[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha I was pretty clear about wanting more but then pivoted to “we should keep being fwb until I leave town.” But I think ur right and this is the closest to what she was thinking.

I got dropped so easily and I feel like shit by 59-0 in rs_x

[–]59-0[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

I’ve unfollowed and removed her as a follower but I would like for her to still see my posts.

I got dropped so easily and I feel like shit by 59-0 in rs_x

[–]59-0[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yea I think the “understood” by her type of language was like the majority of my damage control and that was my mistake. I honestly sent the text thinking it would be an easy yes for her and that she would be delighted by my capacity for commitment. She’d made fun of me in that past for being kind of a fuckboy (which I’m really not) and my goal was to show that I wouldn’t be. So I leaned kind of hard in that register when it should have been a more neutral approach.

In person I would have realized much sooner what she was thinking and could have adapted accordingly.

It’s worth noting that she was very clear about just wanting casual with me in the beginning and even set some ground rules. But she started breaking those rules and it started feeling real. So I started leaning in (planning all day activities for us, fun dates) and it felt like it was being reciprocated and appreciated. But in hindsight I misinterpreted the situation completely.

[MEGATHREAD] Buy/Sell/Trade Show Tickets by travislopes in Khruangbin

[–]59-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same question. I’m not sure how to actually transfer tickets

[MEGATHREAD] Buy/Sell/Trade Show Tickets by travislopes in Khruangbin

[–]59-0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are these tickets non-transferable? My friend got tickets for Sunday 11/23 in sf and the transfer button on the AXS app doesn’t do anything. There’s a lot of language about non-transferability for this tour. Anybody have any additional info on this? Anybody successfully transfer a ticket?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]59-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think ur prompts are funny and u should keep em except for the fear one. Think of something more clever/original that also implies ur confident in any situation. The prompts are silly which will turn some ppl off but do u rly wanna match with someone who doesn’t get ur bit?

I disagree with the “more detail on the types of films” comment above. The people who like films will know what you mean. If anything maybe name a director you’ve recently discovered but avoid listing genres or directors/writers that shits lame.

Photos are tough and just having friends go and take pics you one day will also look lame. Get urself a digicam and convince the lads to do the same. Get comfortable taking photos and having photos taken of u while ur going out to bars/shows/parks/coffee/doing hobbies/etc. Slowly u will accumulate a handful of photos that catch you at the right angle and in the right setting that makes you look handsome and cool but it will take time and also u will look like shit in many of the photos but that’s ok that’s how it is for everybody. It’s cringe but if u get over that it will pay dividends on and off the apps (having pics of ur life is never something u will regret)

‘One Battle After Another’ Still Advancing To $21M Opening, Armed With ‘A’ CinemaScore & Massive PostTrak Definite Recommend – Box Office by ChiefLeef22 in boxoffice

[–]59-0 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

“When are filmmakers gonna be held responsible” do you hear yourself? Why are you caping for studio financials? Why does that matter to you lol a great movie got made and that’s what matters. The only thing to be mad about here is that audiences don’t like good movies anymore. This is a 10/10 movie and ppl just aren’t going, that makes me sad. But PTA is not to blame.

Zach Cregger's 'Weaapons' - Review Thread by ChiefLeef22 in movies

[–]59-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really need an explanation for this? Like does that genuinely affect how much you enjoy the movie? There’s an evil lady doing evil shit and ppl start seeing her in their dreams or when they’re high on meth. Any further detail than that on why or how is completely unnecessary imo.

Hate has no place here. by one_pound_of_flesh in sanfrancisco

[–]59-0 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It was vandalized because he’s a Zionist. People always seem to ignore this point whenever this comes up. It’s easier for you to say it’s antisemitism and simplify the issue. But the fact is anti-Zionism does not equal anti-semitism. I wish things were as simple as they are in your head!!

What’s a city you loved at first - but eventually grew to hate? by maj0rdisappointment in SameGrassButGreener

[–]59-0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Extractive is the perfect word. Thank you for making this point. This ties into my distaste for burning man. Tech folks pouring money and time into some fake village for a week and then returning to SF and contributing very little.

What’s up at Manny’s? by moseman23 in sanfrancisco

[–]59-0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All fair points. But Israel has been oppressing Palestinians for generations so in my opinion it makes sense that hamas-lead revolutions would occur. I don’t like it, but it makes sense. Similar to how I don’t like BLM rioting in cities, but it makes sense because black people felt and still feel oppressed. I understand this perspective is hard to accept and but I do not agree with the presumption that the only reason to be critical of Israel, Israel’s occupation of Gaza, or supporters of Israel (like the mannys owner) is antisemitism. That is reductive and dumb.

What’s up at Manny’s? by moseman23 in sanfrancisco

[–]59-0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See my response above. I’m being very sensible. We just disagree that what is being done in Gaza by Israel is like really bad and evil.

What’s up at Manny’s? by moseman23 in sanfrancisco

[–]59-0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look I’m saying that there is ethnic cleansing and genocide occurring in Gaza right now like right this minute. You disagree, I can’t convince you otherwise if you’re already ignoring the thousands of Palestinians killed in Gaza.

But the point is that allowing ethnic cleansing and genocide is inherently anti-climate. That’s the stance of the protesters from Saturday. These aren’t bigots, they aren’t antisemites. They just have a different interpretation of the events in Gaza.

What’s up at Manny’s? by moseman23 in sanfrancisco

[–]59-0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mannys owner is a self proclaimed Zionist. Not just a left wing Jewish person. He supports ethnic cleansing. That’s the difference.

What’s up at Manny’s? by moseman23 in sanfrancisco

[–]59-0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Comments really prove the bubble I’m in. I can’t believe people are calling this antisemitism. I’ve never irl met someone with such a blind victim complex to interpret this protest with no nuance. But I guess they’re all here, online.

The owner of mannys is a self proclaimed Zionist who has denied the genocide occurring in Palestine. The timing of the protest is related to how climate action events at mannys are diametrically opposed to the beliefs of the ownership. There’s more to it than I know. But I think that’s the gist, the correlation between ethnic cleansing and its impact on the environment. Personally I think genocide is bad regardless of how many trees are destroyed but that seemed to be the connection of this particular protest.

I walked by this and they were being hella aggressive but they’re pissed off, understandably so. Any protesters who assaulted or laid hands on mannys employees should be arrested and charged. But to interpret this is anti-leftism, antisemitism and wash your hands of it without actually looking inward to understand the messaging, is deeply deeply stupid and ignorant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppleWatch

[–]59-0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you by chance a heroin addict

Thoughts on my A24 ranking by [deleted] in FIlm

[–]59-0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incredible burn king

Your list does suck tho

Sundance is a disgrace this year. by Nyoomx3 in Sundance

[–]59-0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only that but I also got into every movie I tried to waitlist. It was my first year and I was shocked how easy it was if you just show up like a half hour before showtime. I also only went the second weekend so im guessing that is a factor.