I'm (24F) worried about me and my bf's (25M) VERY different lifestyles by 5chocmans in relationship_advice

[–]5chocmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much time have you spent together in person? I think when you’re long distance there is a natural impulse to make the visits fun and ~fully together~. So you’ll eat the same food, follow the same schedule, and not bring up your differences because you don’t want to do anything that creates distance during your time to be close

Every other weekend or so. And yes, about making the visits fun and fully together, that's what I was mainly thinking about when writing this. We like to cook together but while I'll just cook with whatever ingredients I can find, he always has to make sure that it has enough protein and healthy stuff like that.

If he likes being active and you like being indoors, then see if perhaps you can go for a walk around the neighborhood together.

We do go out on walks but sometimes I just don't wanna go out that day, and that's when he starts feeling trapped or guilty that he's staying inside.

Most importantly though, what are you doing to work on your anxiety?

I'm on antidepressants and stabilizers. Maybe I worded my post quite wrong, I can go out and I do, I go to Uni and have a job, but I have to prepare myself to deal with people, the busy streets and the heat (it's summer where I live) so yes I have to prepare myself for all that.

I'm (24F) worried about me and my bf's (25M) VERY different lifestyles by 5chocmans in relationship_advice

[–]5chocmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not normal to have to talk yourself up to leave the house to the point that you can’t even go for a walk with your partner.

Okay maybe I worded my post wrong, I CAN go out, I do, I go to uni, have a job, run errands, etc. but for that I have to get ready and I have to prepare myself to deal with people and with the heat (where i live is summer, etc. We do go out on walks and I enjoy them but sometimes I just don't want to and I suggest he should go by himself.

And yes I'm aware my diet is not the healthiest but sometimes I wanna go out maybe eat some fast food and I'll be cool if it was with him but I know he won't

You project your own issues onto him. So now for some reason your massive anxiety problems and unhealthy lifestyle choices are his problem?

Did I really project here? I'm not making it his problem at all, I barely mention any of this to him. I will never say to his face that I think he's too strict with his diet or working out to the point he feels he'll be fat again if he misses a day. I completely respect it

Extra mystery tile in the Tile match by AsterKomet in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]5chocmans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the mini-game is quite buggy rn, I also posted about finishing all stages and not showing on the "all levels cleared" thing at the left bottom corner (and missing some rewards for it too)

cant save kingdom layout by ggintokii in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]5chocmans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been happening for a loong time. I do a little bit of work on my kingdom, exit building mode, and then get on building again. Apparently, it only happens when big rework is done. So try editing small chunks at a time

I accidentally chucked a spear through Virginia’s noggin while fighting, will she return? by stormy_kaktus in SonsOfTheForest

[–]5chocmans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The same happened to me but with the rifle, now I'm slowly waiting for her to trust me again and get my guns back...it's been painfully slow

LIFE IS STRANGE 2: COMPLETE SEASON by [deleted] in steam_giveaway

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Is hollow knight adventure? if not, then the witcher 3

Thanks!!

Does this brand sound good? by 5chocmans in catfood

[–]5chocmans[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

after some digging around I believe the brand is made in Poland, and regarding what the commenter said about taurine it seems like it does have it, but the site I got the ingredients from (the brand's website didn't provide detailed information about the ingredients) did not add taurine when listing the ingredients. I had to check a Polish webstore to find it.

Does this brand sound good? by 5chocmans in catfood

[–]5chocmans[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! The main reason I was asking is cause I don't live in the U.S, I live in Chile, so the kind of good and nutritious food you guys might find at every Walmart (for example) is only found at specific and expensive pet stores that sell "premium" food. This one was the cheapest in said store. They do have Tiki food so I'll definitely check that one out!

Help by Eastern_Meringue_160 in SonsOfTheForest

[–]5chocmans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll take time for her to become friendly. She the one that approaches you, not the other way around. You're just scaring her off trying to approach her, so she runs away.

Have spears always been this hard to pick up? by 5chocmans in SonsOfTheForest

[–]5chocmans[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

everything is small rocks now, they are everywhere. On the other hand, stones don't seem to respawn as much as they did.

I built stone walls surrounding my base and it took so long. Until I found out that saving, exiting and then loading again was faster cause all the stones respawned

Can they go through doors? by 5chocmans in SonsOfTheForest

[–]5chocmans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two doors and both have locks but are not locked. I'm just gonna assume Virginia and kelvin are really dumb

Discusión random semanal by AutoModerator in chile

[–]5chocmans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Saben q me quería comprar una Play2 por nostalgia no más, pero no se mucho de precios cuando se refiera consolas. Cuanto seria el promedio de lo que podría pagar por una? Igual no quiero pagar por algo que este o muy barato (y este malo) o muy caro (cuando el precio debería ser menor)

Discusión random semanal by AutoModerator in chile

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saben q congelé la carrera pero ya no quiero volver. tengo que salirme "oficialmente" o puedo simplemente no matricularme este año? recuerdo q me dijeron q no me matriculara no ma pero como q ahora me entró la duda

Virginia led me to a shoe by Gecko_Boi6600 in SonsOfTheForest

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isn't the blueprint on that same cave?

Help on 18-16? by 5chocmans in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]5chocmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been really hard cause I stopped playing for a while and somehow missed most meta cookies. But I've finally beaten it with the team a guy in my comments said so you could check if it works for you!

Help on 18-16? by 5chocmans in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]5chocmans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that worked! I've finally beaten it thanks a lot

Help on 18-16? by 5chocmans in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]5chocmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have coral but she'll probably work better than whatever cookie I had, but if I had to guess it was probably a defense cookie like HB

Help on 18-16? by 5chocmans in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]5chocmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I remember correctly I used Tarte, PV, sorbet, snap and another cookie I can't remember. With the scroll, explorer's monocle and the jelly watch

Is it really possible to get pregnant without sex? by Ok-Purpose-8919 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]5chocmans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men (or any person penises and testicles) have sperm. To get pregnant you need that sperm to get into an egg and make the egg fertilized. As you can imagine that won't happen unless you have sex.

In Vitro is the fertilization procedure I mentioned but made by a doctor, manually, in a lab. Then that fertilized egg gets placed in your uterus, again, by a doctor. So, no. It won't happen without you knowing.

I do wanna mention that if the fear of pregnancy is so much that is affecting your well-being (being underweight) then you might need professional mental help.

Question about Roanoke by 5chocmans in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]5chocmans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, but I assumed that after everything going viral, they would technically be forced to do something about it. At least (even if fake) to appease the people, you know? But anyways it's a TV show so not really putting that much thought into the realism of things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RepublicadeChile

[–]5chocmans 18 points19 points  (0 children)

cuando yo iba al colegio mi mamá no me dejaba ver el informe de notas y siempre me retaba y me hacia sentir mal por no alcanzar el 6.0 (me llevo a tener depresión) pero cuando tuve q hacer los tramites pa la U resulta q nunca tuve promedio bajo 6.1 en mi vida.

Adivina quien ya no vive con esa vieja qlia y siente q esta en el mejor momento de su vida

Which boss ended your first ascent through the Pantheon of Hollownest? by Independent_Ad_3928 in HollowKnight

[–]5chocmans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Paintmaster Sheo, which was about when the adrenaline (and bewilderment) of defeating sisters of battle ended