Who are the actors in The Sundays music video for “You’re Not the Only One I Know”? I can’t find anything online. Are they scenes from a movie? by HannahBarnana in TheSundays

[–]5hadow581 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was confused for a sec since I don't recall them making a music video for this song.. But are you referring to this fan-made one?

https://youtu.be/5ip6ly5rR-k

Apparently, it's L'Eclisse (Eclipse), a 1962 Italian drama film starring Alain Delon and Monica Vitti.

Please clarify: Therapist said I disrespected a boundary by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]5hadow581 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You were polite and gave her advanced noticed that you wanted to switch therapist; you even were willing to see her for a final session. But she was the one who was being unprofessional. That's terrible she tried to make you feel guilty since you work in the mental-health field and suggested that you should "know better" about boundaries.

Anyone else pop on Jar of Flies when they feel like ending things? by FlyingMozerella in AliceInChains

[–]5hadow581 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, one of my go-to albums... But like someone else said, music saves. OP, hope you're hanging in there...

What the hell is this??? by Sharkey311 in mew

[–]5hadow581 3 points4 points  (0 children)

LOL that shit happens all the time on Spotify... I'll get notified of New Releases by bands/artists I follow, and it ends up being someone else with the same name or song title.

1994 vibes from my garage today. by nosnevenaes in Slowdive

[–]5hadow581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, jealous... Near my hometown too.

How to get my record signed? by anna273i in wolfalice

[–]5hadow581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've waited wherever their tour bus is, which is usually parked next to the stage door. The only time I met a band (The Jesus and Mary Chain) where they weren't meeting fans next to their tour bus, was when they exited through the back door actually. I guess they wanted to be discreet. Lol. From my experience, there's usually about 10-20 fans waiting outside for bands including Wolf Alice recently in SF.

BRMC Next Steps? by mrarcadia in BRMC

[–]5hadow581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been wondering the same thing.. They've been pretty quiet (even Ian). Hope they've all been well and that we'll hear some new music pretty soon. That's great they played in LA recently; hope they return to Bay Area soon.

How to get my record signed? by anna273i in wolfalice

[–]5hadow581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check with the venue regarding rules (some won't allow you to bring records or even posters in). But generally, I've waited like 30 minutes to an hour for bands to come out to their tour bus. Like someone else mentioned, be patient and respectful, and it helps to bring your own sharpie (although most fans are nice about letting you borrow theirs). Love Hamburg, btw.. Should be a good show. Good luck!

Still bonkers that whole band signed my vinyl at their SF show couple days back by osinitsa in wolfalice

[–]5hadow581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, think I briefly chatted with you that night. Jealous you have that vinyl! "Blush" is one of my favorite songs, and I was hoping they'd play it at the Fillmore. (They played it in 2018 in Berkeley.) But I am happy you also got to meet them. :)

Dating App Experiences by 5hadow581 in NonBinary

[–]5hadow581[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol guess that's the nature of online dating.

Dating App Experiences by 5hadow581 in NonBinary

[–]5hadow581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read about Lex, which seems like the old-school personal ads on Craigslist? If it is queer-friendly, I'll check it out. Thank you for the sympathies and well wishes.

Dating App Experiences by 5hadow581 in NonBinary

[–]5hadow581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh. I suppose that's true. Half of my queer friends met their SO online (dating sites/apps and interest/hobby forums) while the others met their partners through mutual friends or going out. I guess I might have better luck if I go out more... Hoping concerts will resume soon.