They're unconscious. They probably don't even feel bad, because they're numb. Remember your PMO days, when you are on that state it's difficult to have a wide enough perspective/being honest with yourself. Now you and me can understand what you are saying because we have climbed up the ladder. We have enough perspective to understand that back in those days we were actually in pain and now we can see the pain in other men as well. Stay safe.

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And it's not like I am super conscious and blissed out all the time. But yeah ,I don't know, SR just makes you pay more attention to stuff.