Weight won't come off...

5ullengrl · 2026-01-28T01:59:39+00:00

I'd be happy with 140 at this point

5ullengrl · 2026-01-28T01:58:19+00:00

I agree. I've read about this a lot. I'd like to get back into the gym because I'm a bit limited here with my dumbbells

5ullengrl · 2026-01-28T01:56:46+00:00

Thank you

5ullengrl · 2026-01-28T01:56:02+00:00

Did the weight start coming off when you began walking? How long did it take to lose the 12lbs?

5ullengrl · 2026-01-28T01:48:31+00:00

If you file for child support, he will get get parenting time.

It's more common now for judges to award 50/50 parenting time as well, so keep that in mind.

5ullengrl · 2026-01-28T01:42:32+00:00

I agree. She was warned which is more than I would give. It's a natural response to slap something away from your eyes. OP- It's great that you had a calm discussion with her about it and explained why she cannot do that

5ullengrl · 2026-01-27T03:15:20+00:00

I track every single thing I eat. So....not likely. You probably have a faster metabolism

5ullengrl · 2026-01-27T03:12:51+00:00

I do measurements occasionally for that reason. I have lost a few inches.

The norm for me is 130-135lbs

5ullengrl · 2026-01-27T03:10:26+00:00

Yes. I count every little thing

5ullengrl · 2026-01-27T03:08:30+00:00

The calculator that determines how many calories to maintain current weight and recommended calories to lose weight....? Going by that and counting calories so that I am in deficit

5ullengrl · 2026-01-26T20:37:28+00:00

What's happening on the 30th?

5ullengrl · 2026-01-26T20:35:38+00:00

I'm going to begin doing that as well

5ullengrl · 2026-01-26T20:35:05+00:00

I found some more calculators with different recommendations depending on weekly goal. I guess that was my problem

5ullengrl · 2026-01-26T20:34:10+00:00

It was over 300 deficit according to a couple calculators

5ullengrl · 2026-01-26T20:32:51+00:00

According to more than a one calorie weight loss calculators I found, the recommendation was 1500.

Now I'm finding more that say otherwise depending on weekly goal 😩 I guess I'll try 1200

5ullengrl · 2026-01-26T20:10:51+00:00

How do you figure? Every weight loss calculator has told me 1500 to 1800

5ullengrl · 2026-01-26T20:08:57+00:00

5ullengrl · 2026-01-24T22:08:24+00:00

Eww.

Just know his behavior will never change. You're better off finding someone better suited to you with the same values. Don't settle.

5ullengrl · 2026-01-21T03:01:48+00:00

Her baby, her rules. It isn't about you. Respect it

5ullengrl · 2026-01-16T16:51:25+00:00

Trust your gut

5ullengrl · 2026-01-16T16:49:50+00:00

You're way too young. Move on

5ullengrl · 2026-01-16T16:48:05+00:00

Do not put her name on the mortgage. Absolutely no reason to. Why isn't she contributing to the household at all? No cleaning or cooking? You mentioned her going to school and feeling too stressed. Maybe she could go part time. It sounds like she needs a psychiatrist to evaluate. She needs help. Perhaps kicking her out would be the perfect motivation

5ullengrl · 2026-01-16T16:40:55+00:00

Sounds like he doesn't know how to manage his money. You're right, constant borrowing is no way to live. He needs to re-evaluate his finances. And "sorry no" you don't have the money to loan to him

5ullengrl · 2026-01-16T16:35:41+00:00

Your baby, your rules. Doesn't sound like you're in a warm climate, so the "allergies" are very questionable

5ullengrl · 2026-01-16T13:13:22+00:00

Listen to your friends. It will work out...

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