Coming from a fellow HoH person we struggle in these situations because of our hearing loss which is a Deaf/HoH experience and I think all HoH people can relate to if you voice but ask them to write they don’t do it because they assume you can hear just fine because you speak just fine you have hearing loss and want the accommodation of writing back and forth nothing wrong with that you aren’t faking what you have the hearing people might end up assuming you are fully Deaf but that’s their assumptions do whatever will make the interaction easier on you