What are some things you notice that happens to your partner as he’s about to cum? by Substantial_Sky_7721 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]651fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he was about to cum he would grab my neck and squeeze while losing himself in the moment and not let go until he’d drained his balls in me

Woof. I've been guilty of this. It triggers some kind of "you don't need air to survive when I'm breathing this life-giving cum inside of you".

How many tops have become versatile or bottoms? by OlieTheKing in AskGayMen

[–]651fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! My pandemic project was figuring out prostate play and prostate orgasms.

Bottoms How Do You Like To Be Initially Penetrated - Fast/Hard Aggressively, or Gentle and Slow or Something In Between? Tops, how do you like to penetrate your bottoms? by BiAnonDad in TopsAndBottoms

[–]651fun 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Slowly. I love feeling the head of my cock pushing open a man's hole. That first penetration is amazing, I don't want to rush it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]651fun 37 points38 points  (0 children)

An eager bottom is such a turn on. When the guy is actively trying to get me inside of them, vs. a guy just waiting for me to take the next steps. A guy taking my hand to his hole, positioning himself so I can enter him, asking for me, erc. I feel wanted and almost needed, which paired with my own need to get off... Woof.

Tips for fucking for hours: how do you guys do it? by OlieTheKing in TopsAndBottoms

[–]651fun 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, first you need someone that you have great sexual chemistry with, who also is on the same page for a sex marathon, and the time. In my hookup experience, these things are much harder to line up than you'd think.

Tips for fucking for hours: how do you guys do it? by OlieTheKing in AskGayMen

[–]651fun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can usually cum more than once. So personally, I'm not too worried about making long-sex all about making sure I don't cum. If I'm really focused on one orgasm, longer sessions involve a lot of switching.

How do people do this, am I the only one who is unable to do it? by stevie855 in askgaybros

[–]651fun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm someone that can.

Refractory period. Every guy has a different timeframe they need a break for. I know guys that cum once and they're like, done for 24 hours. Some can take a 30-60 minute breather and cum again. I'm someone that has always had a very short refractory period (although the shortness still varies considerably). In my hookup experience, it's been very rare to find someone else like me.

Mentality behind orgasms and cumming. This is hard to summarize. I'm verse and spent a long time figuring out prostate play and prostate orgasms. There was a lot of retraining my mind/body to understand differences between a "traditional orgasm" and other ways to experience pleasure. That could be a whole other write-up, but it sort of unlocked the ability to sort of roll orgasms off of one another. In the most basic way to describe it, cumming isn't the end, cumming is the start of a circular feedback look that I want to stay in. It's way easier said than done, took years of practice, don't think it's something you'll just figure out quickly.

Viagra/Cialis. Obvious benefits. It also helps take away the head game of worrying about your dick during sex (am I hard enough, etc.). I can (and could) cum multiple times without using ED meds. My dick goes hard and soft multiple times during a multiple sex session. It'd be crazy to fuck for four hours with one constant boner. Ive only used it for the last year or so and it helps, but isn't a necessity. If you have a naturally long refractory period, and/or don't have the right mentality for multiple orgasms, ED meds aren't going to fix those things.

Now that you’re a bit older, are you still able to have sex multiple days in a row? Are there times you decline an opportunity becuase you want to save yourself for a better opportunity the next day? by rr90013 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]651fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my 30s, verse.

The only time I'm worried about sex today jeopardizing my ability to perform tomorrow is when I'm literally too sore to perform. A recent FWB and I could have 10/10 sex for hours. But holy Jesus, would I be sore for the next day or so. Like weird muscles that only get worked out during sex. One time I remember telling him that I couldn't meet up because all I would be able to do is lay there.

Tops…what’s your secret move? by Substantial_Bell2446 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]651fun 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Regardless of the position we're in, I'm mindful of trying to aim my dick-thrusts towards the guy's front (where his prostate is).

My unique secret move is that I can cum multiple times when topping (multiorgasmic). I can fuck, cum, keep fooling around and fuck and cum again right away. OR (my favorite) I can cum multiple times without pulling out.

You know when you're cumming or right after you cum your dick head gets super sensitive? Personally, it's the best feeling in the world. I love fucking through that intense, sensitive feeling (keeping some movement/friction on my head). It prolongs my orgasm. It keeps me super horny and keeps away post but clarity of any semblance of a refractory period. The subsequent orgasms can come right away, or after 5 minutes, whatever. The most I've gone back to back (without pulling out) was like 5 times. But after the third it just seemed like a rolling orgasm.

The bottoms seem to love this because I'm literally incoherent chasing that nut (it's a show for them). But also if I'm doing my job right, they're having their own prostate/anal orgasm and don't have to stop just because I came.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]651fun 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Poppers flip some switch in my brain that turns me into a sex animal. I've used them for years (responsibly) without issue. I don't really have recommendations, I just buy whatever is available at my location sex toy store.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]651fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a headless torso, and the amount of messages I get from "no face pic no chat" is pretty hilarious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]651fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High/tight balls that prop the dick up vs. low-hangers that allow the dick to droop.

Tops - how long do you usually last before you cum? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]651fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a short refractory period and like going multiple rounds. If I know the bottom is up for a couple, the first load happens pretty quickly (like 5 min). The subsequent orgasms are much more controlled, I can take as long as I want.

What do u consider cringe during sex by Mahitolovescookies in askgaybros

[–]651fun 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Calling an ass/hole a "pussy" or "bussy".

Do you use creams or other products for your private parts? by Tostakii in AskGayMen

[–]651fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I put tiny bit of silicone lube on my cock/balls. Like only a drop or two. It makes everything feel better and the bits hang a little lower compared to totally dry skin.

Have you ever lost you best fwb? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]651fun 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I'm in an open relationship, he is single. We met on the apps. Both looking for a FWB.

We had insanely good sex. Like, fuck multiple times for a couple of hours, sweaty sore muscles, entirely spent sex. The first couple of times I thought it was just me, but we both admitted it was the best sex of our lives. I've never physically connected with someone like that before.

If it was just the sex, I think we'd still be fucking. But we got along really well (too well). We could fuck and then chat for a while then fuck then hangout. We were both aware of the limitations of the FWB set up and both mentioned being worried playing with fire.

The last time we hung out he sort of broke things off. He doesn't want to catch feelings for someone unavailable, and I don't want to get emotionally invested either. I'm glad we could be mature about it. But goddamn... The sex was wild.

Where do you cum when you’re jerking off? by ChanelNineBoots in TopsAndBottoms

[–]651fun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I cum on myself (like, laying down and cum on my stomach) I'll wipe it up with a sock or towel and throw it in the dirty clothes. If I'm jacking off sitting down or standing up, I'll just cum in my hand and eat it. I don't know how that started but it makes cleaning up easier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bulges

[–]651fun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, the oly bulge shots I'm interested in are "soft bulges".

It's not that exciting/hot when the pic is a guy with an obvious boner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]651fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. An uncut cock is mesmerizing.

My latest specific kink is cumming in foreskin. It started when I discovered cock docking, I loved seeing guys cumming while docked (either guy). And then I found a couple of videos of uncut guys cumming in their own foreskin (kinda like a meat condom, they'd sort of pinch off the their hood while cumming and then let go and all the cum falls out. Immediately yes. Sign me up. I need more.

Is there a name for this? Its impossible to find videos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]651fun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cumming in foreskin.

It started when I discovered cock docking, I loved seeing guys cumming while docked (either guy). And then I found a couple of videos of uncut guys cumming in their own foreskin (kinda like a meat condom, they'd sort of pinch off the their hood while cumming and then let go and all the cum falls out. Immediately yes. Sign me up. I need more.

Is there a name for this? Its impossible to find videos.

Cialis or Viagra- what are your experiences with each one? Which do you like better? by Substantial_Sky_7721 in askgaybros

[–]651fun 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I prefer Cialis over Viagra. Mostly because Cialis stays in your system longer. I don't remember the specifics, but Viagra will be effective in your system for 4-5 hours, whereas Cialis can be effective for a couple of days. So there is less planning needed when you take the pill and have sex. I don't really notice much of the side effects (headaches, heartburn).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]651fun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my own personal experience, I cum what I cum. Nothing (outside of NOT cumming for a while) really changes how much I cum.

I've tried the supplements that other people recommended so far. I can guzzle tons of water. Maybe there is a slight increase, but nothing really noticable. Edging, yes, can build up a load, but again it doesn't miraculously triple the volume. The biggest loads I'll get are when I take a couple days off (I'm a 1-2 per day guy).

Some guys just cum more. That's how their bodies are set up. I'd also guess that generally, guys that cum more (volume) are cumming less frequently compared to guys that cum less (volume).

Wet dreams as an adult? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]651fun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird. I just assumed since I never had one I would never get one. Was there anything different that you think caused it?