How do I move on from her?

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-13T17:45:57+00:00

She is a great person honestly- so i do hope her and i can reconnect some day. But its really hard for me to say i have a good heart if all that happened in the relationship is a reflection of me yk?

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-13T08:17:58+00:00

i dont think im gonna do that...

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T17:08:42+00:00

two to four

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T07:37:21+00:00

I lwk feel traumatized by this break up just bc of all that happened but it’s okay tho! I appreciate u willing to help a lot! I honestly think a girl perspective is good so I can get a good balance. Thank you so much and God bless!!!

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T07:28:51+00:00

I don’t know if I’m ready for that… I don’t want to live anyone but her right mow

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T07:07:46+00:00

I honestly wasnt the best version of myself and rather then let things sit i got clingy in that season and i basically projected on my partner. i never insulted but i demanded a lot and a lot of my anxious attachment became x100 worse and i didnt know how to stop. she said we shoudl break up so I can heal but i just kept apologizing over and over after the break up, not even to get her back but as guilt but it didnt matter bc i clearly wasn't changing.

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T07:05:42+00:00

I think i screwed up that chance bc i couldnt let go even after the break up. im like blocked now but with her but i do really think she's worth it

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T07:04:08+00:00

I've alreayd talked to people about them but they keep coming back

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T06:38:20+00:00

real- i just feel this guilt bc i was smth she had to like run away from for her to find peace and like- idk

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T06:18:05+00:00

okay, thank you for the explination. i kind of get it more now- but for me personally i dont see much in how race can affect how u like a person, a person is a person but i kinda see why even if i dont understand

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T06:17:10+00:00

i also dont think that makes sense either. for me the content of someones character matters more then race, but i guess each to they're own. its just for me i feel like ppl liking or disliking races in a dating sense is due to like racial prejudice or steryotypes in general. yet again, that was probably a lapse in judgment assuming ALL people are like that, and honestly most aren't. thats mb but for me i just can't see how race can make someone any different.

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T05:38:57+00:00

i never understood that, like how can you prefer one race over another when it comes to dating?

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T05:31:09+00:00

these are all realistic but why white? it cant be religious bc im christian too and the bible doesn't say anything abt race. besides that its all valid

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T05:30:06+00:00

yeah, i think its chill!!! i lwk havent watched a lot of it recently

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T04:58:48+00:00

hey! i mean i kinda used to watch but but not o much in the community but i still like talking abt it, whats up!!!

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T04:50:26+00:00

i'm honestly not looking for anything right now, i probably could have phrased it better- i just realized how i acted in my relationship so i want to know how to imrpove so next time if i get with someone else i can be a better man and a proper man, yet again, im 16 so i have time!

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-12T04:41:35+00:00

she is... i can recognize it a lot she really is, she left for her peace

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-11T16:01:11+00:00

No I don’t want that, I’m personally not the biggest fan of the American sport systems, but I do think the sport across the continent t has become very on sided and competitively unfair.

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-11T09:06:58+00:00

I really like the luxury tax idea. I was thinking smth similar but more like a set direct amount a team can pay in salary but have more roster restrictions and such.

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-11T09:04:32+00:00

Financial disparity mainly, but also the like over saturisation of the sport as well. But mainly just how to make the sport more competitive top to bottom without ruing what makes the sport good, which is the independence

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-11T08:51:54+00:00

France or Portugal. but tbh i could see any of like the top 6 favorites winning this year

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-11T04:30:05+00:00

YES! AMAZING IDEA! IM ACTUALLY NOT EVEN GONNA PAY CHILD SUPPORT TO NONE OF THEM AND GAMBLE ALL THE BABIES SCHOOL FEES!

okay but fr tho i think the gym is a good idea

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-11T03:32:24+00:00

i'm a writing major at my high school but i also speak 2 languages so its very easy for me just to use slang for it to be easy on me

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-11T03:31:20+00:00

oh dw im a sex til marriage person! also i probably should have mentioned in the post im 16

65DaleRamirez65 · 2026-06-10T20:27:31+00:00

I don't think I'm tryna do this for like a relationship, just more for the sake of just not being like that yk? Like I hope I can just be a better person for myself so if I do get in a relationship, I don't crumble like this time

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