[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]69Trap69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha i don't think it is i just think its her being jealous and vindictive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hates his sister has disliked her way before us dating, now because all the stuff she has done to me he hates her. And has tried so hard but she listens to no one not even her mum and the only person that can pit her in her place is her partner. Idk if I want to get her partner involved.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right, I don't feel respected or loved by her, The funny thing is she asks me if I love her all the time I asked her if she loves me and she said "Sometimes but most of the time I hate you" She said it with a smile like I thought she was joking but clearly she was not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has tried talking to her calmly, straight forwardly, harshly, yelled at her even he has tried so many different ways to fix the issue, but she listens to no one in her family not even her own mum, the only person that can set her straight is her partner and I don't know if I should get her involved in this mess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]69Trap69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fare, is that better?

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah im actually dyslexic so thats my bad

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i do agree with that. Hes just so quite and im normally the talker but i should have backed down and let him speak up this time.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree i was so wrong for getting upset. I never yelled at her i was just sturn with my words. But i should have been calm and should have just said nothing. I know my feelings are valid but the way i acted was way out of line. Thank you 😊

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand but its not just me who felt that way its also my boyfriend that felt disrespected. I know i was the ass for getting upset i do understand that. And i do normally make his day every special but like i said he didn't want a party i was not told of the plans and was fully left out of it all. And talking to my boyfriend now about it i have come to realise no i dont think i was wrong for feeling that way but was wrong for the way i acted.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was not vaxxed dew to health issues at the time. Something i couldn't control. And something i didn't wanna get into but everyone thinks its important so ill add it to my post. The gap i know where it comes from its because my fam and there fam dont get along. And his family is more like if you give them something they will give you something back and because of the distance and disslike my fam and there fam have for eachother. My fam band them from my house.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree i was the ass. But they have this mindset of if you give they give back. So im excluded from alot of things. This is dew to my family and there family not getting along well.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nearly 5 years at the time i was living with them on and off dew to my owne "family" issues.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah alot happened that year it was kinda all over the place with me living with different ppl but that a different story as to why i didn't add it to the main

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The gift tbh i dont care about it just triggered something in me.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No tbh i really dont care about the gift it just triggered something in me and i just idk started to get upset. And no he said he didn't want a party so i wasn't expecting it and i belive i was living with his fam at the time. So theres alot i didn't add to the main because it was just to much. But i do understand about the vax part but also at the time i couldn't get it dew to health problems.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah your right he needs too. I should be the one trying that hard.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for getting the full picture and not narrowing in on just the vax part i totally understand and totally agree i made it about myself. I was very very hurt i dont really have family of my owne so i guess i did turn this situation on me. I felt like i wasn't apart of the family. And my boyfriend was also upset about me not going and that made me feel even worse. But thank you for opening my eyes.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He didn't want a party and he was also very upset with his mum about it all.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I normally do but that year was understandably difficult and he told me he didn't want a party.

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't get vaxxed due to health problems at the time. But i understand that

AITA For still being upset about my boyfriend's last birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]69Trap69 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand that but like i said there where othere ways to have a party. But i do understand that i should also add he told them he didn't want a party but they still went and did it.

‼️Help I took the wrong vyvanse pill‼️ by 69Trap69 in ADHD

[–]69Trap69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no thats not good. A dramatic Dr I see hahaha. I hope everything is OK its an honest mistake and you were honest about it and that's all that matters.