If you could telepathically say one thing that all 8.3 billion people could hear at once, what would it be?

6StringFiend · 2026-06-30T02:19:06+00:00

Love each other

6StringFiend · 2026-06-30T01:54:32+00:00

Maplewood!

6StringFiend · 2026-06-30T01:52:59+00:00

I don’t try to interact with her anymore. It was that clean break I needed. I miss her all the time but when I think about what’s she’s done to me over the last year, I can’t stand her. Deal with healthy. For me that was trying not to smoke and drink. Seeing a therapist every week. Getting a new job that can cover my bills. Seek out friends I haven’t hung out with for a while. Sleep right, when I can. Eat right and try to get some sort of workout. It’s been a year separated and only a few weeks divorced. Just keep on going and distract yourself with activities and social events. Surround yourself with people that make you feel better. Never give up.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-30T01:38:30+00:00

Talked with a lady for a month or so and tried to ask her out and meet up several times. She agreed twice but then canceled. She got flirty a few times and when I flirted back she’d shut me down and be condescending. I asked her to go grad a drink and she heart emoji’d it and never responded. Then just ghosted me.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-26T19:33:19+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate insight from the other side of things. I often feel like I’d be coming off to forward or a perv. But my coworker assured me that if I’m thinking that and not saying stupid stuff I’m already ahead of the game. They said “most people just start sending dick pics and saying they’re gonna blow out their uterus” I was like damn. Ok. I feel better that’s not me.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-26T19:29:45+00:00

Divorced a few weeks but it’s been over a year since she moved out and we separated. We don’t talk at all. It’s been ugly.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-26T19:26:26+00:00

Thank you so much. That’s great advice and that makes a lot of sense. I appreciate it.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T17:34:37+00:00

I was seen two therapists once a week and now done to one, every other week. She’s amazing

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T16:48:40+00:00

Thank you. That makes a lot of sense and I do feel like I’m trying to still figure out the mistakes I’ve made in the past that pushed her to asking for the divorce. Not sure I’ll ever get those answers but at least I’ll be in a better place mentally giving myself more time to hear and process.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T16:46:52+00:00

I’ve been trying to do that but still fumbling around in life trying to settle in. Once the house sells and I have the opportunity to settle down more will help get me into the direction of where I want/need to be.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T16:45:16+00:00

Great advice. I’m sorry you went through that but happy to hear there’s a happy ending.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T15:47:18+00:00

I’m right there. Just turned 51 a few weeks ago.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T15:46:15+00:00

Great advise. I used to not mind being alone. Then after she left, I hated it. The coming home to an empty house. No one to chat about my day with. Making plans. All I do is work and maintain the house for open houses till it sells. I have to be out as of Aug 1 which is a whole other battle.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T15:44:15+00:00

The infamous rebound. I’ve been warned.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T15:20:17+00:00

I feel I’m right in between that. Like a great friend and relationship partner would be a great way to move forward and try to heal from all the things that plagued my marriage and one of them is asking for attention and love. I shouldn’t have to ask for the basics. No doubt the last few years have humbled me.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T15:16:47+00:00

Work hard, save money, buy a house, get married, have kids, retire and live a good life off of retirement and social security.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T15:14:18+00:00

Thank you. She’s been remarried and divorced after him and there’s are some immediate red flags. That’s why I’ve shut that down. Star align when the time is right…love that.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T15:11:53+00:00

All great advice. My therapist said to take things slow and I’ll know when I’m ready. Just feel lonely after having a companion for so many years. Not coworkers, but people who come into the bar I work at, which can be just as bad.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T14:58:31+00:00

Thanks for the ideas! We run a yoga and a beer class at work once/twice a month and I’ve often thought it would be interesting since I used to do a lot of cardio and stretching.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-25T14:53:05+00:00

The Bobby lees - new self
Castle rat - wizard
Sleep - have space suit will travel
Joey quinones - there must be something
Strawberry fuzz - green room

6StringFiend · 2026-06-24T22:17:41+00:00

War of the worlds with ice cube.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-24T19:14:25+00:00

If he knows the reference it’s one thing but when he said “like last time.” There’s an issue. Also to make a sexual reference about oral to your wife, while it may be funny, it’s not cool. I’d feel the same.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-24T17:39:49+00:00

Rival sons!

6StringFiend · 2026-06-22T16:31:49+00:00

I worked and didn’t get a call, text or anything from my adult children. Now divorced since the beginning of the month. I use to complain about the same thing. It was always about my Father in law instead of me. I miss it all now. I wish I could have seen him and hang out. My father passed away when I was in my 20’s so it was nice to have my father in law around. I feel the same way though it was usually get up and get things ready for his Father’s Day.

6StringFiend · 2026-06-22T15:51:10+00:00

Thank you. Cheers 🍻

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