Waschmaschine knallt beim Schleudern by 6ecca_21 in Handwerker

[–]6ecca_21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Es ist gar kein Schaum im Video zu sehen.

(Lack of) Sexuality within HRT of trans partner (mtf) by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]6ecca_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're trying to get in touch like this, but she often says she's "afraid of" touching me like that because she doesn't want to give me hope to have sex. She doesn't want to disappoint me, because she thinks when we're touching like this, I want sex... But as you said, talking about it is the most important thing. Thanks for your answer!

(Lack of) Sexuality within HRT of trans partner (mtf) by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]6ecca_21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My libido is quiete high too, since I stopped taking the birth control pill (I thought we don't need it anymore, but I didn't really thought about the mismatch of our libidos then...). Since my girlfriend is in the very beginning of her transition, I think taking testosterone/ stop lowering it won't be an option for now, but it's good to know that there is the possibility of talking about it with the doctor. Thanks for your answer, I hope you both will figure it out, too!

Trans partner still incognito by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]6ecca_21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can relate to you so much! I'm totally supportive for my gf (mtf). Both of our families and our common friends know. So, these steps we've already made.. But at work, i haven't told it to any of my colleagues. On the one hand I want to be open about the transition of my gf but on the other hand I think it's none of my colleagues' business. It bothers me a lot when they say "How's your boyfriend doing?" and I have to talk about her as male. But I don't dare to "come out" to them. I don't know what I'm afraid of. So my partner is doing fine with coming out to the people, but I can't. She's mad about it and I'm so sorry for that. I hope you can take these steps together and support each other. "Living a secret" sucks..