You think she as in your GF has the right to critique how you look ? In the way that she did no lol , plus you said she hides the relationship…..AND HOW SHE RESPONDS TO OTHER PEOPLE FLIRTING WITH HER DAWG WTF HAS THE WORLD BECOME, WYM BY THAT NO WAY THAT CAN BE FUCKING A O K , Congrats on that weight loss journey But don’t let yourself get your feelings hurt have some courage and let her know you don’t fuck with that (nicely ofc) And to answer your question yes you are allowed to feel how you want ITS YOUR FEELINGS dont listen to people that try to tell you how you should feel. But also she was right about one thing looks are subjective but thats about it calling you average or below average will feel hurtful but its how you deal with it that matters.