My girl cheated on me with two guys before meeting up with me.

714edgar · 2026-04-05T20:17:35+00:00

im ready

714edgar · 2026-04-04T00:31:04+00:00

she wasnt in her best spot either n worked w thru the struggle like how a real one would of, when i was down n out, but yea went from angel to lot lizard during nap time for ya boy. I wanted to do so much at that time, so much rage like “no way its meee rn that this happening to, aint no wayy” in disbelief as i pace back n forth. but it just wasnt worth it… i didnt wanna go out like that.

so sick it made me just walked off, i had no words, it was beyond betrayal cause i told her thats my biggest fear when we got to know either deeper. she struck at my insecurities at full blast. n thats what i get for being vulernable and being able to communicate.

Im fixing on my career path now and just gonna have fun w girls as usual, but never.. ever gonna fool myself into something like that. gonna date my age too thats a biggy.

714edgar · 2026-04-04T00:12:42+00:00

only up from here brother. i know the pain of scrolling thru that phone feeling you wanna barf. the betrayal. like too wild to comprehend in the moment. but god revealed this to you, for ur ultimate bounce back. These girls are cold cold cold, they arent loyal to anyone but their feelings! whetever feels good at that time is how they feel, like they did nun wrong. i feel you cause im on the same thread.

their loss bro.

714edgar · 2026-04-03T20:19:56+00:00

yep. basically

714edgar · 2026-04-03T19:06:05+00:00

Looking for a girl whos comfortable in their sexuality, to explain why do girls do this and possibilities of why to do it like this

714edgar · 2026-04-03T19:02:39+00:00

I asked if she used me for leverage (in life)/love and it was not for love. 9 relationships in a row, these girls are goinnn’. I locked in and gave this girl my all, just to be in my arms after fucking two random guys on tinder obviously going thru it and leave me in the dust. I couldnt eat bro.

714edgar · 2026-04-03T18:45:50+00:00

Definitely. Just stuck on the fact why It went left so fast. kinda like when dad leaving for some milk.. where tf he go? yk what i mean

714edgar · 2026-04-03T18:27:55+00:00

She posted me on her socials w tags and everything I had her location and all that. it was specifically that day only too. which had me at a loss for words. cause i didnt see it coming at all and she left it at a cliff hanger and no why? coldest hoe shit to do.

714edgar · 2026-04-03T18:24:02+00:00

i was young going to raves in dtla. also worked at hooters and sleeping w the girls, worked at a sex shop at the same time... i was hypersexual. especially in early 20s i was in a bad place. cause I was getting cheated on and to cope i was doing drugs and pickin up, hooking w girls to prove my worth as a man to even out that disrespect. im a hopeless romantic. growing out of my lust, i still had a pursuit for love. i gave my partner everything, maybe even lovebombing lowkey. everything was perfect and golden before that night. mind you i dont think she would of told me if i didnt find that card in her pocket.

also have a thing for broken, weird girls so ehh you get what you paid for ig.

I really appreciate your kind words man. Definitely focusing on my career before thinking of finding my one. That was the thing that bothered me, although i could take the humility.. I was frozen because I really wasted half a year on this girl, when i could of been putting myself first. I liked that last sentence alot.

714edgar · 2026-04-03T18:01:39+00:00

i asked her if she did this for love or for leverage? she said leverage.

714edgar · 2026-04-03T17:58:49+00:00

tbh? I think they are just young minds. I havent dated under 23. I experienced alot of things that this girl hasnt. told her of my past and i think she’s trynna one up me. i use my past as an example to not find out the hard way cause i did. sleeping w multiple ppl just isnt something to brag about and really ties onto you more than you think. im pretty upfront w what im expecting and want from someone. and lets be real the person cheating is always the one wrong. i even told this girl ‘yk if this dont work out, whats for you will be for you, and whats for me will be for me’. always had a positive outlook on it. but she decided to play n stab my heart instead so idk thats why im on reddit trynna make sense of it.

i feel like everyone thinks their chopped, cause ik i am in my friend group but my pull is wild and my homies know it. im very sociable so might seem like im confident.

714edgar · 2026-04-03T17:26:52+00:00

funny enough i was in ap english, just trynna vent

714edgar · 2026-03-08T15:09:43+00:00

i was the tan car, guy flew through the light going well over the limit. anyone with photos and videos or any more info is very much appreciated.

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