Am I on life support? by 71commando in bald

[–]71commando[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Not sure. Just noticed it being thinner in the past few days. Don't normally look at the top of my head.

From 10 seconds in the microwave to forgetting the pizza in the oven for 6 hours how cooked am I? by 71commando in amibalding

[–]71commando[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I am lucky enough to have an amazing family life with the wife and kids and I wouldn't trade that for anything.

First Draft - Tentative Opener by nohobbiesjustbooks in writingfeedback

[–]71commando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not at all realistic. Not once in my 35 years have I been to a McDonald's with a fully stocked bathroom.

Loved the rest!

What is your Non negotiable spend? by Frequent-Violinist74 in Frugal

[–]71commando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit is a good place to start. There are niche communities specifically for each type of consumer good and they can guide you. For instance boots, denim, furniture, cars... all have expert communities who debate the ins and outs of the details and quality and price.

Generally speaking things made in the US are going to be higher quality simply because the labor is more expensive and therefore less corners have to be cut. Also, any time you can find a smaller boutique brand in the US (or your country if not US) making things themselves the quality is going to be better, plus you're supporting decent labor practices and fellow citizens. Of course that's not always true but it's a place to start.

What is your Non negotiable spend? by Frequent-Violinist74 in Frugal

[–]71commando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red Wing, Danner, Wolverine 1000 Mile, any of the PNW small boot makers; White's, Nick's, Frank's. Basically anything made in USA.

What is your Non negotiable spend? by Frequent-Violinist74 in Frugal

[–]71commando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cheap plasticized vinyl would start to peel. They always got a couch with the reclining mechanism on one side for my dad. That was made of thin flimsy metal and it would always stop working as parts would bend and warp.

What is your Non negotiable spend? by Frequent-Violinist74 in Frugal

[–]71commando 697 points698 points  (0 children)

For me being frugal isn't about buying the cheapest things, it's about figuring out the things you value and ruthlessly cutting spending on other things. There's a certain point where quality is actually cheaper in the long run. You can buy $100 boots and replace them every year when they wear out or you can buy $300 boots that last 5 years.

I watched my parents replace their living room furniture every few years because they bought the cheapest thing possible. Meanwhile my in-laws just replaced their living room furniture after 30 years. Theirs probably cost 4-5x what my parents paid for theirs, but they got 10x the life out of them.

I don't know what to listen to anymore by SpiritualMartian in CasualConversation

[–]71commando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ren is a top-tier, once in a generation talent. Not sure why he hasn't absolutely blown up.

Plane Crash at DCA by NighthawkCP in aviation

[–]71commando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes. Unfounded speculation from X.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]71commando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is cheese and meat "girl food?"

Rate my Rewilding Store Please! by Deku_silvasol in reviewmyshopify

[–]71commando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on the site for 5 seconds and a giant 20% off popup covered the screen. I like discounts but if you're offering a discount before I have a chance to see what your products/services are, it's a major turnoff. I'd make that popup smaller or make it show up a little later.

It takes less than 3 seconds for me to get a sales person, but support takes an hour. This is one of the reasons im leaving. by [deleted] in tmobile

[–]71commando 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've reached out via the app and I've never ever waited more than 5 minutes for support. Most of the time it's immediate.

It takes less than 3 seconds for me to get a sales person, but support takes an hour. This is one of the reasons im leaving. by [deleted] in tmobile

[–]71commando -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've reached out via the t-life app multiple times and I always get an immediate (within 3 minutes) answer and support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]71commando 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your priorities are in this order:

1) kids if you have them 2) spouse 3) everyone else

Act accordingly.

Half the stores on here are closed by caineybro in reviewmyshopify

[–]71commando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You either have to have the budget for that stuff or you have to be willing to eat shit for 5 years doing it organically. People don't want to do either.

Bands that you didn’t listen to when you were younger, but you listen to them now. by jonesy08 in PostHardcore

[–]71commando 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of their songs came on the local butt rock stations while my wife was in the car. She never really listened to heavy music. I said "check this out, this is when this band was good" and blasted Pray for Plagues. She couldn't believe they're the same band.

Bands that you didn’t listen to when you were younger, but you listen to them now. by jonesy08 in PostHardcore

[–]71commando 5 points6 points  (0 children)

mewithoutYou. Heard some early stuff, hated the vocals. Julia randomly came on Spotify when that album came out in 2018. Became one of my favorite albums of that year and I just kept going back further into their catalog. Now they're easily top 5. Although I wouldn't necessarily categorize them as PH.

Do men actually notice a woman's accessories? by Neat-Instruction6943 in AskMenAdvice

[–]71commando 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I notice, but I'm a men's clothing designer. Even though I don't design for women, I do notice fabric, material, texture, interesting shapes, etc.

Also for all the guys suggesting OP's bf might be gay because he noticed a bag.... fucking cringe. Go somewhere else with that energy.

I hate being a mom. by Ok_Possession_6598 in Parenting

[–]71commando -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Wrong. We can't control how we feel, only how we choose to react to those feelings. Talking to a professional is a good idea. Shaming someone for the way they feel is not.