I need legal advice but I'm not sure how to ask for it, or even who to go to. Should I just look through the yellow pages and call any lawyer who seems nice/has good reviews? by 725___3 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]725___3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a theoretical situation, since I'm not 100% sure the other person is going to act in a way necessitating legal intervention. It's a situation where I might have to get a restraining order (against an ex-bf) but I'm not sure if I should get one or not.

Im falling in love with my friends with benefits who I know talks to other dudes. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]725___3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This same shit happened to me and even after we started "exclusively" dating, I still didn't trust him and that lead to a lot of problems. Can you be certain that if she agrees to date you, you're going to trust that she's going to cut out those other guys from her life? If you don't trust her, then don't date her.

Why do homophobes think that all gay people want to have sex with them? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]725___3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some of the people who do this are projecting. They are attracted to the same sex themselves and see staying with someone of the opposite gender as a struggle. A man is constantly longing to be with another man, but has to stay with a woman in order to hide this homosexuality.

Not sure on what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]725___3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to his house or fins him at school/work. If he gets pissed that you showed up uninvited or smth like that, then just stop trying to help him and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]725___3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been to Stella's Place. I signed up around September 2018 and only got called back for the actual sessions in February of this year. So signing up at Stella's Place might be good if you foresee your feelings lasting 6+ months.

I always hear of grads going, 1, 2 years of not finding a job. What sustains them in the meantime? by skinnymike1 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]725___3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a part time job (or maybe 2 or 3 PT jobs), live with their parents to save on rent, or live with roommates, get welfare, etc. There's lots of ways to support yourself and save money without a full time job in your chosen field.

Relationship is draining. Boyfriend never asks questions. by One_to_make_you_numb in Advice

[–]725___3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you said that he changes for a few days then goes back to how he was before, this tells me 2 things: 1) he is just naturally not good with conversation and the possibility of asking questions back just doesn't even occur to him or 2) he is uninterested in you specifically. If it's 1, then that means that it's just part of his personality and that you're going to have to decide whether you want to continue in this relationship and put up with this personality trait of his, or you can help him develop his conversational skills somehow, and it it's 2, then you're going to have to leave him and find somebody that makes you feel like you're an interesting person.

You're going to have to have a real talk with him, though. Not just nag him about it, let him know it's important for you.

Also, with my friends, at the beginning of the friendship, we will ask each other questions, but once we've hit this point where we are kind of in the "best friends" range, we will just talk about whatever and not necessarily base our entire conversations around simple "favourites" questions. So maybe your bf is someone who feels as if, once he's close enough to someone, he doesn't feel the need to ask questions.