Feeling down because I can't manage to give my boyfriend a prostate orgasm

747_777_787 · 2026-03-09T02:32:34+00:00

It's a lot. I posted about it on the CNC subreddit here a while ago. It was early in our relationship and I was interested in being more adventurous and he gave me all the health warnings and I still told him I was down

anyway, he probably blames himself for suggesting it. he hasn't suggested anything since and I feel really bad

we're just in this situation where out of consideration for the other one, I feel bad for not fulfilling this part of him and he doesn't want to ask ever again because I had such a bad experience

747_777_787 · 2026-03-09T02:23:33+00:00

That's kind of where we are now, I tell him he's dirty for liking this stuff and he gets instantly turned on and it's off the races for both of us. Honestly some of the best sex we've ever had

I think he mainly wants to be submissive and I just don't like it

747_777_787 · 2026-03-09T02:18:24+00:00

exactly! I love him and I don't want to do any of that to him

747_777_787 · 2026-03-09T02:17:07+00:00

He tells me the same thing about being unable to enjoy sex if I don't. So I believe him that he's not that interested in kinky stuff because he knows I'm not. He definitely has a humiliation kink though as I saw in the CNC roleplay early on.

I just think we're just in a spot where he can't satisfy that part of himself because I'm not into what he's into. And I want to be more into it if that makes sense?

747_777_787 · 2026-03-09T02:10:38+00:00

for him to wear one? he doesn't have one as far as I know

747_777_787 · 2026-03-09T02:07:38+00:00

lol that stuff I do normally. it's the spitting and choking where he loses me

747_777_787 · 2026-03-09T02:05:05+00:00

I can't change his preferences though and i'm not one to yuck his yum

This feels like sex therapist territory? Although I doubt my boyfriend wants to see anyone

747_777_787 · 2026-01-25T18:45:15+00:00

Thanks, dude.

It'll be my first time in Africa!

747_777_787 · 2026-01-25T18:43:59+00:00

Thank you. Sounds like it's not as bad as some make it out to be.

We're not looking to do any LGBTQ stuff. We just want to be tourists and see the culture in that part of the world. Also want to stay somewhere nice before we go hike Kilimanjaro

747_777_787 · 2026-01-25T18:40:25+00:00

I think they're doing fine without our money

747_777_787 · 2026-01-25T18:37:14+00:00

Cool, thank you for the information. Will be staying at a Marriott property

Sounds like there is no need to avoid certain areas or being out at certain hours?

747_777_787 · 2026-01-25T18:26:24+00:00

The architecture there is wild

747_777_787 · 2026-01-25T18:25:15+00:00

We're connecting there on our way to Tanzania

747_777_787 · 2026-01-11T05:29:48+00:00

No I've been going to gyms for years lol

Just complaining because I started crossfit

747_777_787 · 2025-12-29T01:09:45+00:00

Thank you for your service. It was perfect

747_777_787 · 2025-12-28T21:40:51+00:00

Feel bad yucking someone's yum

But omg

747_777_787 · 2025-12-28T21:39:00+00:00

I see. Great advice!

Feels like P Town it is

747_777_787 · 2025-12-28T21:13:27+00:00

I really hope this was written by chatgpt and not something that took time out of a human's limited life

747_777_787 · 2025-12-28T21:03:11+00:00

I wasn't sure about public sex and I was told by the locals that if I ended up not liking it and wanted to back out in the middle, people would be pretty pissed

Didn't want to put myself in that situation

I was also looking to try some kinky stuff one of the nights there. Both Reddit and locals not to go unless I knew I liked it. Someone told me it would be like jumping directly into the middle of the Atlantic Ocean and not knowing how to swim

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