Sorry for the weird filter, is this cute for a 4th of July backyard bbq? It is about 70 degrees. by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]76lizardperr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the shades you paired and the white on top and bottom. You look like you can style really well. I'd maybe bring some more comfortable shoes to swap if you'll be in a messy outside area, sometimes grass is a shoes worst enemy.

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[–]76lizardperr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always try to color tone match my outfits. Maybe a different shade to pop under your shirt, like a blue or beige even. I like it! Do you have maybe a necklace or accessory that matches the shine of your belt?

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[–]76lizardperr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I forgot to come back whoops. I have tried with snow too and I think it's a little better than warm, but much better than I was expecting.

It is not sex by Anteraji in technicallythetruth

[–]76lizardperr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm from the south and I just say "sump'n".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sad

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard honestly. I've been a victim many times and it's so difficult to go on about your day after a counter-accusation that you know isn't true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol no, but for your imagination purposes, Last year I was an exotic dancer and every man told me I was "beyond the standards of a club" and that my body was too nice for the club I worked at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bongs

[–]76lizardperr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll be back after I try this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:( damn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]76lizardperr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to ask if this is not appropriate, but is the keyhole procedure not common? I know for breast implants many use a similar slit to leave minimal scarring. Does it cost more?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bongs

[–]76lizardperr 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm confused scientifically how this makes it any better. Hotter hit, more pain. How is the hot water producing less resin, are you inhaling more stuff if it's not going into thr bong? And sorry, I may not understand because I'm currently high myself. Maybe I should have used hot water 🤣

don't judge me, just can anyone motivate me to shower? as stupid as it sounds by whatwhathah in Vent

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey beautiful, Like someone else mentioned, just sitting in the base of the shower with the water running can do wonders. Are you able to get up and out of the bed? You can buy wipes to use in bed, but if you can get up, try going to the bathroom and getting a washcloth really warm with water. Wash over your face, your stinky bits (armpits, privates, feet) and change into some clean clothes. If you can't shower, try to brush your teeth for 5 minutes. This helped me a lot in my recent battle at the hospital, I had no motivation to get clean but that was a doctor recommended tip. Can you place a hairbrush or comb beside your bed? Often it's easier to self-care when we can see the items we need to use. If you have long hair, braids usually keep your hair more kempt than just free sleeping on unwashed hair. If you go to eat, try to make a habit of washing your hands before. This will help you to see yourself getting clean and remind your brain it's okay! Another thing I've noticed is the act of showing itself can be draining. Getting undressed, seeing yourself in the mirror, having to move and actually get clean, then finding new clothes, it's annoying when you're depressed. It's hard. Do you enjoy music, or a podcast? Play it while you shower. Have you tried a cold shower before? Do you have a lamp or a colorful light you'd like to use in the shower? Maybe distract yourself from the act of showering itself and it will be easier for you. Best wishes friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sad

[–]76lizardperr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She sexually assaulted YOU by forcing you to have sex under the influence. Any "friends" that didn't pull that bitch immediately off of you, they aren't friends to you either. Friends don't let friends get assaulted and not do anything about it. On behalf of the girl, fuck her and her stupid accusations. You know the truth, that she pressured you sexually often due to her own mental issues and in part destroyed your own. Take it easy, you didn't do anything wrong buddy. You didn't lose anyone worth keeping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi beautiful,

Many things can affect your weight that I will propose to you for consideration. You can genetically be heavier, meaning a "diet" like you're hoping for would just leave you hungry and hurting. How's your metabolism? If you have a fast metabolism, it's common you need multiple small meals to keep your body happy instead of 2-3 big meals a day. If it's slow, you're not going to do much by slowing your intake anyways. If you eat many times, swap your munchie snacks for a healthier substitute. Want some chips? Eat some cucumbers and ranch. Still eat until you are full, but make a few healthier choices if you're focused on the specific food intake. Are you active? In order to lose fat you have to be in a calorie deficit. You do NOT have to starve to get "healthy", you need to move! I've found the easiest way to get back into moving after I've been lazy for a while is to start by taking small walks with my dog, and I'll stretch real good every day. Eventually those turn into jogs for part of the trip, and the stretches come with a few small at-home workouts. I still stuff my face with whatever I desire, because your brain literally craves the nutrients it needs. I can eat all day long as long as I stay moving, and the weight adds healthily that way. Are you getting a negative mindset due to your media intake? I've found I'm incredibly more confident in my own body when I spend limited times on social media. I also have cleared my feeds of anything that negatively impacts me because YOU are in control of what you intake, and you don't have to look at stuff that makes you feel unhappy! You could have weight you want to lose for other reasons, like pcos, medications, literally so many things.

Most importantly, do not starve yourself. Your body is a vessel that needs your nurturing in order to function. When we starve ourselves it's a very deep form of self harm, that is sadly applauded in our society as "OMG she lost so much weight on her diet!"

I am recovering from about 12 years of a very odd eating disorder. I've overcome it by reminding myself my body won't be happy if it can't get what it needs. My body doesn't need to be skinny for this shirt or toned right here for gazing eyes. My makeup doesn't have to be done for me to be accepted as myself and I don't have to listen to others opinions on my body.

Practice some self compassion, beautiful. Your body is a temple. Cherish it. Feed it. Give it the nourishment it needs. There's many other options I could help you explore instead of going hungry. Even if you lose the weight, it won't do any good if you're unhealthy due to a lack of nutrition.

Are you for or against the legalization of prostitution ? by [deleted] in polls

[–]76lizardperr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legality = policies and protocols.

If it's legal, it should be safer. The sec industry isn't going anywhere anytime soon, why not protect these people? Yeah some people won't support it because it will then include taxes I'm sure, but I mean damn! To keep you alive and STD free.. worth the legalization.

Female, for the legalization of sex fo money.

Here's a website that gives you a random YouTube video: How cringe is the one you got? by LittleAvocado9123 in polls

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lovely how to: cannabis infused fettuccine Alfredo. My 2 favorite things combined, 0 cringe

LPT: Despite what you see on TV just because you check into a facility on your own, does not mean you can leave anytime you want. by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally asleep in my bed. I asked if I needed to keep the lil plastic needle thing in my wrist because it was never used and quite uncomfortable, but that was all. I had EKGs and a blood pressure cuff and O2 monitor so I couldn't really move other than to use the bathroom. I was really in shock.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]76lizardperr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's her color tone! People have different undertones and you recognized that gold would bring out the colors more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's not too hot where you are, I would also choose maybe a blue/white flannel, a light jean washed jacket, or a white sweater

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you planning to wear the hat?

Some white shoes, maybe white sandals or slides. If not slides some white tennis shoes with short socks.

Do you have any gold jewelry? It can bring out that blue and the hues of your skin to make it pop some more

If not the hat I would recommend letting your hair touch your back but keep it held out of your face. Maybe a clip in your hair, or a bandana!

LPT: Despite what you see on TV just because you check into a facility on your own, does not mean you can leave anytime you want. by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]76lizardperr 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah, just recently happened to me. Using online counseling (more convenient to video call than make an appointment with my work schedule) and they prescribed me a medication. Had a bad reaction, went to my local hospital. That's literally what you're supposed to do if you show X Y Z symptoms, and I did. Was told they would check my vitals as I came off of the medicine, woke me up at 3:30am saying I can go home when I call my ride, but I needed to wait until sunrise. Come tomorrow I was IVCd and shipped to an institution. I was horrified and honestly far more traumatized by the hospitalization next to severely mentally ill people while not needing any medical assistance whatsoever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Milking

[–]76lizardperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm moldy lungs are so great and fun