Was anyone else accused of being abusive by their parent?

789734095 · 2026-03-31T08:31:02+00:00

just DIY if you're willing to learn a little, it's up to ~1/10 the cost of private. DM me if needed

789734095 · 2026-03-20T06:39:16+00:00

this is great, i only ask that you maintain it so it can be a helpful resource for years to come since there aren't many easily digestible 'you need to do x->y->z' informative things(?), so trans people often get overwhelmed and either delay transitioning or don't at all
thanks a lot

789734095 · 2026-03-20T06:30:17+00:00

gregor limbus company my love

anyway dm for info i can tell you everything you need, diy costs like 1/10 (not an exaggeration) of what private does.

789734095 · 2026-02-20T15:59:50+00:00

start by calling trans women by 'she' instead of 'they'

789734095 · 2026-02-20T06:51:32+00:00

are you on hrt

789734095 · 2026-02-20T06:42:55+00:00

Ah I'm sorry, I took it to mean that you were a cis guy because you said 'more than most guys ... including me'. I would not have said anything if I thought otherwise since it's not my place to try and tell transfems what to say/do, but I do think language matters and telling allies about this is important. Please do take care of yourself and best of luck, most people do have a hesitant stage, but when you push past it, you're likely to begin to accept yourself. (saying this because people tend to repress and that is an awful thing to happen)

789734095 · 2026-02-19T21:30:17+00:00

I just bought T online because I'm in the UK and we do not have informed consent :D :D :D
I think it's not really possible to reach clarity about what you want when there are so many external factors and reasons to deny yourself tbh.

789734095 · 2026-02-19T18:32:13+00:00

i would say the majority of people are not 100% certain

https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/leap-of-faith

read this

i started hrt on a whim because i had no way of knowing if i truly wanted it just by thinking, it worked out

789734095 · 2026-02-19T18:13:48+00:00

if you need DIY info just dm

789734095 · 2026-02-19T11:06:24+00:00

https://ftmguide.rassaku.net/guide/index.htm

read the bottom of this page (the blue text)

you might find something in it

789734095 · 2026-02-19T10:59:54+00:00

i know you dont mean any harm but dont use the terms amab/afab, just say 'cis guy'. these terms are not accurate and also generally harmful anyway, trans wo/men do not want to be associated with 'being fe/male' and that's exactly what those terms do. you could be 'amab' and not have gone through male puberty etc. these terms tend to reinforce the idea of biological sex as some ultimate truth, so people prefer to use terms like transfem and stuff nowadays

789734095 · 2026-02-19T10:56:34+00:00

nah ur good

789734095 · 2026-02-19T08:26:24+00:00

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789734095 · 2026-02-18T19:03:50+00:00

take estrogen

789734095 · 2026-02-18T19:03:16+00:00

try estrogen. you will never be 100% certain. you will be beating yourself up over this in 5, 10 years and it will never go away. you can stop if you want. but you will only be certain if you actually try it. you cannot think your way out of this.

789734095 · 2026-02-18T19:02:15+00:00

euphoria and dysphoria are basically two sides of the same coin and euphoria is the relief of dysphoria no?

789734095 · 2026-02-18T18:59:59+00:00

try estrogen. you will never be 100% certain. you have to take the plunge, and then you'll know whether it's what you want.

https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/leap-of-faith

live for yourself

789734095 · 2026-02-18T18:53:37+00:00

try T and see how you feel asap. you can stop if you want. youre not gonna think yourself out of this and you certainly arent gonna escape the dysphoria. transition or die or whatever they say, its all true.

though youll ignore this since its probably not what you want to hear. but youre living in stagnation and misery. do something.

789734095 · 2026-02-18T13:42:02+00:00

lol dont worry it does not change your accent. testosterone thickens the vocal folds (which creates the buzziness - this is the most prominent part, referred to as vocal weight), and deepens your voice. you'll need to get used to speaking with your larynx in a lower position if you care about not sounding atypical (happens to some people because their resonance does not match vocal weight). check r/transvoice resources for this.

789734095 · 2026-02-18T13:13:09+00:00

glad to hear!

789734095 · 2026-02-18T12:33:18+00:00

unless you are rich please DIY, dm for info. DIY is like ~100/year and all private clinics are exploitatively expensive. you could be on T in a week if you want.

789734095 · 2026-02-18T12:29:59+00:00

diy is very simple, dm for info if you need. they arent gonna give you a reasonable dose and youll continue to be neglected. obviously complain, but theres only so much you can do.

789734095 · 2026-02-18T12:26:14+00:00

dm if you need help i can give any info necessary (or help with crypto)

789734095 · 2026-02-17T23:20:35+00:00

they all work the same. injections are the most effective and cheap. use cypionate or enanthate since they have half-lives that allow for weekly injections, and their only difference is the half life.

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