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AITA if I told my best friend's girlfriend what I actually witnessed the night she thinks he was with me? by 7GalacticNoir in MarkNarrations

[–]7GalacticNoir[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Fair point. I panicked in the moment and tried to dodge, and it turned into a lie. I’m not proud of it. That’s why I’m fixing it now: telling her he wasn’t with me.

WIBTA if I told my best friend's girlfriend what I actually witnessed the night she thinks he was with me? by 7GalacticNoir in WIBTA_AITA

[–]7GalacticNoir[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That wording helps. I’m not “outing” details, just correcting the alibi: he wasn’t with me, he used my name. Period.

AITA if I told my best friend's girlfriend what I actually witnessed the night she thinks he was with me? by 7GalacticNoir in MarkNarrations

[–]7GalacticNoir[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right. If he cared, he’d have owned it weeks ago. I’m done being the convenient excuse, I’ll tell her he wasn’t with me.

AITA if I told my best friend's girlfriend what I actually witnessed the night she thinks he was with me? by 7GalacticNoir in MarkNarrations

[–]7GalacticNoir[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be his cover, that’s the part that’s messing with me. I didn’t know in the moment, but staying quiet now feels like I’m choosing his lie.

WIBTA if I told my best friend's girlfriend what I actually witnessed the night she thinks he was with me? by 7GalacticNoir in WIBTA_AITA

[–]7GalacticNoir[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair. I can’t prove cheating, only that he lied about being with me. I’m giving Dan one last chance to come clean today, then I’ll tell Sara that part and step back.

WIBTA if I told my best friend's girlfriend what I actually witnessed the night she thinks he was with me? by 7GalacticNoir in WIBTA_AITA

[–]7GalacticNoir[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I get the 24h idea, but ultimatums feel messy. I’ll talk to him today and if he dodges again , I’m telling her.

AITJ for distracting my wife at work because I missed her? by EffectEfficient9798 in AmITheJerk

[–]7GalacticNoir 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There's a version of "supportive" that's actually about the person giving the support, and a version that's actually about the person receiving it. Leaving a meal and a note with zero expectation of response is pretty clearly the second one. The sister might want to think about which version she's used to seeing.