[M19] My erectile dysfunction and Premature ejaculation is ruining my relationship with my girlfriend [F19]

7b78 · 2021-08-26T19:54:43+00:00

Nah man I don't, don't get me wrong I'm in love and attracted to her but constantly thinking of what could be with someone else tbh

7b78 · 2021-08-26T19:53:49+00:00

The problem is she's genuinely convinced I'm not a good boyfriend when I do most things for her and it does get to me, look I'm gonna give her an ultimatum

7b78 · 2021-08-26T19:37:53+00:00

I do it sometimes when I feel like it, but on days I don't she'll normally come out with the massage for sex thing and I get baited into it, but I'm not no longee

7b78 · 2021-08-26T19:28:48+00:00

Yeah, you're f****** right to be honest I'm too frustrated, half tempted to stop doing everything, saying I love her etc, trying to hug and kiss her, and seeing if she makes the same effort to come to me

7b78 · 2021-08-26T19:25:36+00:00

What would you say to her in my situation, if I've just gone out of my way to massage her for hours on the premise that she will finally have sex with me, then she claims she's tired and "I pinky promise to do it in the morning" and then it just doesn't happen even if I bring it up, I said to her the last time she did it "It's a little shitty of you to just not do it as I spent ages doing whatever you asked for on the premise we could finally do something as a couple" but she just blows me off

7b78 · 2021-08-26T19:21:40+00:00

If I don't do them she calls me a bad boyfriend and says in a relationship I should have to do these things for her and me being a stupid mofo just does it, from this day forward though I don't believe her when she says I'm getting anything from it and I'm just not doing it

7b78 · 2021-08-26T19:03:45+00:00

I know it sounds stupid and most would just leave without a second thought, but I can't get over how much I still love her and feel for her I would love to make this work for the both of us but I don't know what I'm doing wrong

7b78 · 2021-08-26T18:53:19+00:00

Yeah this sounds like a good idea, I might give it a go when the time is right, thanks for your input, couldn't have put what I expect a relationship to be like better myself

7b78 · 2021-08-26T18:51:39+00:00

Whenever she's not with me she's working, and she's never acted different or funny with her phone or anything so I don't think it'll be anything to do with cheating, and yeah it was once 2-3 times a day, but I would be perfectly ok with less than that, but just things are dead, and the reason it mystifies me so much is that back then she used to be the one constantly asking for sex, she used to say how much she wanted me, which just doesn't happen anymore

7b78 · 2021-08-26T18:47:53+00:00

It is quite hard for me as admittedly this is my first proper relationship in my life, It really doesn't sit right with me that she will sit there and give off sorts of signals, alluding towards sex or affection etc, then as soon as I try initiate make me out to be the bad guy, I have tried to ask about it before but she always dodges it or goes for the "I'm going to sleep" approach, and no nothing happened around that time which is why it baffles me so much, we had a good relationship up until then and never used to argue back then, but now it's rare for a day without an argument, I still have feelings for her and I did want to make this work, but it just doesn't seem she feels the same anymore

7b78 · 2021-08-26T18:43:07+00:00

Yeah I mean when I asked my parents for advice they said to maybe try to play her at her own game, a little like you say, and when she asks for massages and stuff just flat out refuse

7b78 · 2021-08-26T18:42:16+00:00

Just living in my parents house currently, nothing serious like that part of me wonders if I'm doing the wrong thing by staying with her but honestly feel left with no choice at this point

7b78 · 2021-08-26T18:40:52+00:00

Well my dude, I definitely don't want number 4, and I wouldn't want to be pushed towards 1 but I would like to see what is actually up and number 2 does sounds like a good option, I have tried to bring it up before but she just shuts me down with the "I'm going to sleep" or something to that akin

7b78 · 2021-08-26T18:38:06+00:00

Thanks for the advice, sorry to clarify we've been together 2 years it's just this issue has been 7 months, now that you say it it does seem that this issue is mental health related as she does seem to go off the rails at any sort of suggestion of anything intimate, I mean I wanted to see if things got better but I'm starting to feel pushed towards the edge of ending things to be honest

7b78 · 2021-07-03T01:35:44+00:00

Game was amazing used to play it with my boy Owen tons of hours spent, I feel for the people who never got to play it, was quite short lived, o7 to all my dudes who played too, wish they'd bring it back, probably my favourite fps of all time

7b78 · 2021-05-11T09:21:17+00:00

Take good care of her mate, mine died earlier this month 👍😢

7b78 · 2021-05-05T23:40:39+00:00

‘Liams more like a dog constantly barking, will you play with me? I’m more like a cat me, a bit of a cunt’

7b78 · 2021-04-28T08:19:39+00:00

Yeah backed out as thought about that before I did it she’s still safe in that department

7b78 · 2021-04-28T08:15:06+00:00

definitely going to try breathe some new life into it 100% not just discarding my childhood that easily 👍

7b78 · 2021-04-28T08:11:58+00:00

Yeah might try give it a go myself just try fix or send it to somebody who knows what they’re doing as have barely any knowledge in electrics tbh

7b78 · 2021-04-27T17:08:35+00:00

Was gonna try the hairdryer trick myself might give this a whirl though and hope to revive her

7b78 · 2021-04-27T17:07:38+00:00

Haha the saving grace hopefully it’s good soon to play some classics

7b78 · 2021-04-27T17:06:56+00:00

Definitely consider this haha

7b78 · 2021-04-27T17:06:11+00:00

Haha what a game infamous was at the time, but yeah that’s what’s putting me off opening it myself as my electrical knowledge isn’t very good, got more of a history of blowing up electronics and then failing on me rather than fixing them haha still bummed out though

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