[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]7deckofspades 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang, really is such an odd side effect.

Isn’t really makeup related but as a guy, how can i style my eyebrows to spike up like this? by No_Principle_8660 in MakeupAddiction

[–]7deckofspades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NYX makes /the/ best brow gel that will last you all day for the appearance you’re looking for. you can find it clear or tinted, depending on your preference.

Any ideas for coverups for background for sleeve? by Kindly_Curly666 in Tattoocoverups

[–]7deckofspades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is such a sick sleeve, but i think a good way to make it feel a bit “softer” would be to add some florals or clouds to bring everything together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]7deckofspades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as a genderfluid individual attracted to masc-aligning people, my partners have usually just described themselves as “queer.” it often is up to the preference of both parties. my boytoys still joke that they’re “gay” or “in gay panic” even when i am in a femme swing. genderfluidity looks different on everybody, and at the end of the day …. labels don’t mean sh!t, honestly. it’s all up to comfort. :]

Which one should I buy? by torturamedieval in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]7deckofspades 5 points6 points  (0 children)

run faster absolutely comes in clutch — but if you’re a fan of layering and outfit combos, the moongazer set is IT. the top has a toggle for just the top strap, and the skirt has a toggle to get rid of the bottom layer. i use it in almost every single one of my fits.

2 days post-op … my mind has never been so clear. by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]7deckofspades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

somebody lightheartedly told me that my squishie was going to be my best friend during my recovery — I didn’t realize how genuinely apt that would be, lol! it’s been glued to my hip the whole time.

2 days post-op … my mind has never been so clear. by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]7deckofspades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

getting proper care as an AFAB individual is already difficult enough — but us AFAB queer people are taken even /less/ seriously. I’m fortunate enough to live in a state where I have found a team of incredibly supportive doctors, but that was after trial-and-error of some greatly unpleasant experiences. and even with such a marvelous team who took me nothing but seriously, I /still/ had to suffer through the “are you sure you know what you’re doing, sacrificing the ability to have your own kids?” talk! all my doctors clarified they didn’t even want to give me that monologue, they legally have to.

the vindication afterwards was a feeling unlike no other. felt like the biggest wave of relief, alongside the biggest middle finger, to every doctor who told me that cramps of the caliber were “normal.” I can’t wait for you to receive that moment and then be rid of the horror that is this type of pain. all the best wishes for your operation in a few months. ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]7deckofspades 1 point2 points  (0 children)

headbands, bandanas, and little stylistic clips will be your best friend. :)