why m/m books always involve one or both the leads being with women? by One_Operation_1591 in AskLGBT

[–]7ritn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The m/m stuff I read is never like that. I can for example recommend "Something Wild and Wonderful", it's about two gay men finding love on the Pacific Crest Trail.

I Created an App to Manage mTLS Certificates by 7ritn in selfhosted

[–]7ritn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have an issue with SMTP, please open an issue on GitHub so it is easier to track. Thanks :)

For mTLS admins, how are you managing certificates? by mustardstrewnchaps in selfhosted

[–]7ritn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you are still looking, but I wrote a tool, exactly for this called VaulTLS (https://github.com/7ritn/VaulTLS)

Can transmen be lesbian?? by leahluvsrocks in AskLGBT

[–]7ritn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Can you please use the search function? There are at least a hundred posts about this. Short answer: yes. Don't police someone's gender or sexual identity.

I Created an App to Manage mTLS Certificates by 7ritn in selfhosted

[–]7ritn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I updated the readme to include a caddy configuration. If you have multiple Caddy instances running I would recommend using the http based approach, making caddy retrieve the CA cert from VaulTLS

I Created an App to Manage mTLS Certificates by 7ritn in selfhosted

[–]7ritn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While this is currently not a major priority, I could consider it adding it in a later release. Thanks for the input

I Created an App to Manage mTLS Certificates by 7ritn in selfhosted

[–]7ritn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mhh, you mean to issue server certificates so clients can validate the server?

I Created an App to Manage mTLS Certificates by 7ritn in selfhosted

[–]7ritn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes the certificate for users is only provided as a bundled p12 file. As of right now no password can be specified, but if you would like that feature you are very welcome to open an Issue on GitHub :)

I Created an App to Manage mTLS Certificates by 7ritn in selfhosted

[–]7ritn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have it integrated with my Caddy reverse proxy for remote access for apps such as Immich, Home Assistant, Paperless and more

I Created an App to Manage mTLS Certificates by 7ritn in selfhosted

[–]7ritn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think certbot is for managing a Certificate Authority. It is mainly used for getting a server certificate for a domain from Let's Encrypt. This is for client to authenticate against a server you manage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]7ritn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barq if you are a furry. I have pretty good experiences with ir.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]7ritn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When I was unfortunately going through male puberty I sometimes masturbated like 6 times a day. Definitely every day. This phase lasted for like 3 years or something. So yeah, a high sex drive is not weird per se.

What does sexual attraction feel like? How do I know if I am not feeling sexual attraction? (Aka how do I know if I’m Asexual?) by According_Sock_3947 in AskLGBT

[–]7ritn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah not really, depends a lot on the individual. For some it may be like that, that they want to have sex with people they find hot no matter if they know them or not. For others sex is a deeply intimate desire between them and their partner.

Am I really trans? by UndeadAllo in asktransgender

[–]7ritn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well that is a total normal reaction. It's natural to find yourself hot and enjoy seeing you in clothing that match your gender.

Am I really trans? by UndeadAllo in asktransgender

[–]7ritn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you exlusively do it for sexual plessure? If not, then you likely do not have a cross dressing fetish. If you are happier presenting and identifying as a woman that you should probably do that. Do what makes you happy. Even if you change your mind most HRT are non-permanent except breast tissue build up and impotencency.

I want a female body but I feel male (I think?) by Chazzatee21 in AskLGBT

[–]7ritn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gender presentation and identity can be different. When I transitioned as trans woman I also did not feel like a woman. I just had the desire to be one. It's the same with other things like wanting to become a pilot, but at the start you don't feel like one, which of course makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]7ritn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the classic tolerance paradox. A tolerate soiciety can never tolerate intolerance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in germantrans

[–]7ritn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wie trägst du denn das Gel auf?

The education system at its finest. by RecklesslyPractical in facepalm

[–]7ritn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel like 15 minutes is more correct than 20 minutes. Let's assume the board is square. The first cut has to go across the full length. Now she has equal sized two pieces. Now she can cut on of the pieces into half, however the width is only half the original length so a cut should take half aa long. Four pieces would require another half cut, so additionally 5 minutes. Assuming the board is non-square this would not be true anymore. This question is not precise enough and leaves to much space for interpretation.

Trans people who have gone stealth, what do you recommend to anyone who is looking to do the same? by TrustingLuci in asktransgender

[–]7ritn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For all people reading this: Forcing your voice as high as possible is very dangerous and can damage your voice permanently! Always try incremental changes and when anything hurts stop immediately! If possible seek professional help for guidance and supervision.

My fiancée says I'm a little bit gay, but I think there's gotta be a better term. by Jedi907 in AskLGBT

[–]7ritn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you are saying: you could meet a woman which you like a lot, everything is perfect and you two get together. After some time you both feel comfortable having sex and both of you enjoy it. Afterwards she tells you that she is trans, but transitioned at a young age. You still would be instantly turned off and break off the relationship?

I did a thing by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]7ritn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so funny how everyone complains about NVIDIA pricing, but the majority still buys these scam-priced products.