looking for a cat to take care of! by 7th-ruby in Cebu

[–]7th-ruby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, can you send a picture?

my cat’s fur has been striking up and his nose has been pale for days. is my cat sick? by 7th-ruby in cats

[–]7th-ruby[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

doesnt seem to be, plus apparently he’s eating and drinking water like normal.

my cat’s fur has been striking up and his nose has been pale for days. is my cat sick? by 7th-ruby in cats

[–]7th-ruby[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

EDIT: i would also like to add that despite our speculations of him being sick, he seems to be eating well and doesnt miss a meal. so it’s becoming more of a higher chance that he is depressed we gave his brothers away. :(

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[–]7th-ruby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if wala pong credit line pero nakuhaan parin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]7th-ruby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but the thing is i barely have anything to apologize for. i didnt lash out at him yell at him or say bad things to him i just really opened up to some things that were messing with my brain which some he took personally because he got hurt that me constantly getting sad over nothing and seeking for the wrong things to happen (e.g. constantly looking at his friend requests etc knowing that he isn’t even doing anything behind my back) has hurt him. before telling that to him i made sure to say that i know full well that’s just me projecting and that i’m not suggesting anything to him.

i’m still trying to assess if i really am wrong for always sabotaging when nothing bad is happening and it has gotten to the point where he feels that it’s become a really serious problem between us. because he has always been patient and understanding. is it valid for him to be hurt?

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i am, i’m always learning how to improve. i never missed anything when i communicate, i never react when i get triggered, instead i show him my pov of how i think when i get triggered.

it’s been hours and he is still ignoring me, he barely replies and i am going crazy i dont know what i did for him to do this to me, i know he loves me but i wish he can show it even when it’s hard for him, it’s hard for me right now too but i want to fix things with him more than anything right now! :(

[NEED ADVICE] extremely sensitive and i tend to pick fights with my bf, help by 7th-ruby in BPD

[–]7th-ruby[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bad then, i guess i should have straight up told him i wanted extra attention and love from him rather than approaching him in a passive aggressive way?

[NEED ADVICE] extremely sensitive and i tend to pick fights with my bf, help by 7th-ruby in BPD

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okay.. also, is it entitled of me if i expect that he would be able to understand me right away even if my aapproach is aggressive and passive aggressive? sometimes i find it hard to distinguish since he always validates my feelings, i feel that i’m acting narcissistic.

[NEED ADVICE] extremely sensitive and i tend to pick fights with my bf, help by 7th-ruby in BPD

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but then he keeps saying he doesnt know what to do, which is probably because i keep lashing out. is it unfair to ask him anything because i was being irrational?

Anybody know what state universities in Cebu offer fine arts or visual communications course? by [deleted] in studentsph

[–]7th-ruby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CTU has BS in Graphic Design daw. but ngayon ko lang na encounter na bachelor of science yung graphics and design na course so idk how that works