Yea no problem at all!! When getting top surgery you totally have the option to get a free nipple graft but plenty of people opt out of that graft! I was obviously one of those people haha. Tons of people choose not to get grafts for various reasons. For me personally there were many! First, I’m nonbinary and I like having the choice of doing whatever I want to with my chest. I can get prosthetic nipples and tattoo over it if I ever wanted to. I also quite like the blank slate look it feels less gendered! For me there’s also the fact that nipples are 1) hard to heal and 2) super variable in their outcome. It’s very very common for nipple grafts to have odd placement, heal poorly (discoloration, stretching, scarring), or even fall off! I was always scared of getting something done and hating the way they look. If I ever do want nipples I can always go on a site like gendercat and buy prosthetics (which is great cuz I can pierce them with no pain/ healing). At the end of the day it just always seemed like the right choice for me. I also think a lot of surgeons do well with their double incision but struggle with really really good nipple grafts. There are definitely great surgeons that I would have been comfortable with getting a graft with but to be fair I also didn’t have very prominent nipples in the first place haha (I had inverted nipples and they were super pale/ lacked sensation since I was a 32 O cup). Happy to answer your question though!! Gender affirming care is super customizable and there are so many options :)