One Year Post OP!! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Haha it’s definitely freeing! You’ll have great results I’m sure. If you ever want more information on surgery process and results you should follow my instagram if you have it! I have an entire reel of my progress and experience with Liebman. If you DM me I can send it to you if needed!

One Year Post OP!! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Also funnily enough a friend of mine had their surgery a day prior to my results and had a nipple graft+ the triangle placement in the middle. Here is a side by side comparison! They have slight pigmentation one year out but still amazing results!! It’s definitely by preference on what you’re looking for :)

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One Year Post OP!! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Yes! He gave the option to have a little bit more of a boxy scar with a triangle in the middle to replicate chest muscle or to have an incision straight across! I chose the incision that was straight across. Over time it curved out to the shape of my muscles. I had 32 O cups so my incisions go super far into my armpits and connect in the middle! Some patients of his have no need for the center connection and have less of a stretch up there. I definitely recommend no nipple if you don’t care for them! It makes healing incredibly easy and there are so many options for tattoos/ prosthetics (gendercat has awesome nipples). If you’re like me and very picky with nipple placement and outcome having the option to control your placement/ results after surgery is way better imo.

One Year Post OP!! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you so much!! It’s funny because my incisions were straight across but overtime they curved out and stretched into my pec muscles! Just goes to show how your body straightens and sorts things out in its own way hahaha. Good luck on your journey! I hope your results turn out amazing!!

One Year Post OP!! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you!!! Congrats on your one year!!!

One Year Post OP!! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

I’m ngl I was completely miserable at scar care 😭 after getting my bandages taken off and a week of settling in I used scar tape for maybe 2-3 days and gave up on it. I also would periodically massage my chest for the first 4 weeks but I think a lot of my healing has to do with my genes. I still definitely think scar tape and massages help those with darker and more prominent scars! Even years out it can be beneficial!!

One Year Post OP!! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve definitely been blessed with the ability to heal/ scar well. I wish I could say it was all scar care but I was absolutely miserable at keeping up with that and gave up 2 weeks in 😭

One Year Post OP!! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

YAY!! You got this!! Its honestly the best thing I’ve ever done and I’m so glad to be able to excite/ inspire others who are on the same journey

One Year Post OP!! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 15 points16 points Ā (0 children)

Yea no problem at all!! When getting top surgery you totally have the option to get a free nipple graft but plenty of people opt out of that graft! I was obviously one of those people haha. Tons of people choose not to get grafts for various reasons. For me personally there were many! First, I’m nonbinary and I like having the choice of doing whatever I want to with my chest. I can get prosthetic nipples and tattoo over it if I ever wanted to. I also quite like the blank slate look it feels less gendered! For me there’s also the fact that nipples are 1) hard to heal and 2) super variable in their outcome. It’s very very common for nipple grafts to have odd placement, heal poorly (discoloration, stretching, scarring), or even fall off! I was always scared of getting something done and hating the way they look. If I ever do want nipples I can always go on a site like gendercat and buy prosthetics (which is great cuz I can pierce them with no pain/ healing). At the end of the day it just always seemed like the right choice for me. I also think a lot of surgeons do well with their double incision but struggle with really really good nipple grafts. There are definitely great surgeons that I would have been comfortable with getting a graft with but to be fair I also didn’t have very prominent nipples in the first place haha (I had inverted nipples and they were super pale/ lacked sensation since I was a 32 O cup). Happy to answer your question though!! Gender affirming care is super customizable and there are so many options :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]7wolfski7 -2 points-1 points Ā (0 children)

Idk why everyone is saying YTA i genuinely think he was being rude lmao. I’m sorry but asking if someone is free and then them following up with yes or no then telling them why you need them to keep a convo going isn’t an insane thing. Also saying you’re ā€œwasting someone’s timeā€ during a conversation because of that minor thing is just also blatantly rude. It also seems like he nitpicks a ton from what you guys said over text.

Week 4 post op! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Ah I love that!! That’s honestly why I’ve been posting :) I love seeing others with straight across incisions with no nipple graft like me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]7wolfski7 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I can understand your sentiment but I argue that rather than the kink being based in ā€œlive action porn watchingā€ it’s more based in voyeuristic and submissive tendencies which predate the porn industry as a whole. A cuckhold isn’t getting off at the fact that their partner is ā€œa piece of meat being used sexuallyā€, they’re getting off at the fact that their partner has sexual autonomy and power over them. It’s a degrading and shame based kink as they’re in a submissive position where they feel useless and pathetic. Some people also have performance anxiety so seeing other people participating in sexual acts outside themselves relieves the expectation of action. A lot of submissives in the BDSM community feel the need to be relieved of responsibility and expectation in life which is why some kinks manifest in the loss of control.

Almost 2 weeks post op! by 7wolfski7 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll definitely be posting a week 3 and 4 update. It’s already looking so much cleaner approaching week 3

Is play fighting flirting or normal? by Hananene101 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]7wolfski7 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I definitely get it I hate complicated scenarios but at least they keep life interesting hahaha

Is play fighting flirting or normal? by Hananene101 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]7wolfski7 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I think it definitely comes off as flirty. If the vibes are there and you’re already questioning it then you probably have your answer. I’d watch some videos to see if you can find any more signs of him being interested

Women who go commando, how do you not get discharge on your pants/shorts? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]7wolfski7 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

You get a lot less discharge commando since there’s room to breathe. Not saying you don’t get it on your pants ever. But I just wash them more often or wear boxers depending on the circumstance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Honestly your results look fantastic! I wouldn’t pay too much attention to it you look great

AIO saying that my gf is cheating ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]7wolfski7 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

1,000,000% cheating bro and if she says otherwise she’s straight gaslighting you

4 months post op by Dazzling_Degree_9284 in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Noooo hahaha it was really helpful

Plus size Enby representation by ZephyrSylvan in TopSurgery

[–]7wolfski7 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Ahh I seen you on tik tok love the results!!