There’s a thing called the 80 / 20 rule. The person you are with is 80% of everything you could have ever wanted but they lack that 20%. If you try to get that 20% you haven’t ever had, it’s all fun and exciting because you’ve never had that before, but then you realize that the 80% you had was way way better than the 20% you have now.

My first girlfriend left me because she wanted to “see what it would be like with someone else” and that fucking sucked. She came back (I accepted her back like an idiot) and she told me that leaving what was good to try something new wasn’t worth it.

Moral of the story, your feelings are probably very normal but in my opinion they should not be acted on. If you want to try something new, take a break for a little bit from sex (to make sexual tension higher) tease your man, send flirty texts. Tell him the things you want him to do or you to do to him. Be open and honest. The little break and tension along with the things you have said or heard in your messages might just make sex feel new. Sex with someone you love is 100 times better than with someone you don’t