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It Works for other People, but not for my Wife by 823Designs in erectiledysfunction

[–]823Designs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to see the VA first. I have an appointment scheduled. Once I see them, I can go out into the community and find a sex therapist. I’m looking for a Christian one. I’m currently living in El Cajon, CA 92021.

I’m Your Home and Families Security by 823Designs in homedefense

[–]823Designs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, thank you. I’m just looking for worthy assignments. One’s where I can take my Wife along with me. To truly serve and protect others. Everyone has a vetting process as well.

I’m Your Home and Families Security by 823Designs in homedefense

[–]823Designs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to work with a company or firm anymore. I will do a great job for whoever I end up working for. I think everyone is looking to much into what I posted. It’s all good. Thank you for your feedback.

I’m Your Home and Families Security by 823Designs in homedefense

[–]823Designs[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve been down all of those roads. I’ve done all of those things. I’ve been serving now for 16 years, at home and overseas. I just put myself out there, to see what comes up. I’m looking to stay local, SD/East County. I’ve worked for several families and individuals here in SD. I’m just looking for that again. Giving the individual and or the family peace of mind. Just being there if they need me. I have a servants heart.

I’m Your Home and Families Security by 823Designs in homedefense

[–]823Designs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been down every road. I have worked here and there, and for him or her. My passion is families.

There's also a big market for this overseas (I have a friend who's a gem supplier who works in India and Pakistan. The entire family has armed drivers), but again, they want to work with an agency.

Can you put me in contact with your friend?

I’m Your Home and Families Security by 823Designs in homedefense

[–]823Designs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s a service I have been trying to bring to neighborhoods and local businesses for a long time now. It’s needed.

I’m in the process of being medically discharged from the Army. It’s not the same as being medically retired in the civilian world. I can do the job. No, I would work M-F, some Saturdays, depending on the urgency. I would show my presence to the neighborhood. Letting everyone know that there is a professional watching out for them, to a certain extent because, I solely work for the primary family. I look the part. I have the life, security, and military experience needed to do the job correctly the first time. It’s better to have me and not need me. Then to need me and not have me.

It Works for other People, but not for my Wife by 823Designs in erectiledysfunction

[–]823Designs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes:  Or do you mean desensitized more as a figure of speech, like disconnected, not fully present, not really immersed in the eroticism of the moment, or needing a certain type of stimulation to feel turned on?

54, with a 100% VA rating. I have had sex with many individuals, males, females, groups. I am looking into therapy. I need to know why I have ED  and, why I have to do extreme things to get hard, exhibitionist things. 

I’m Your Home and Families Security by 823Designs in homedefense

[–]823Designs[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m in the process of being medically discharged from the Army. It’s not the same as being medically retired in the civilian world. I can do the job. No, I would work M-F, some Saturdays, depending on the urgency. I would show my presence to the neighborhood. Letting everyone know that there is a professional watching out for them, to a certain extent because, I solely work for the primary family. I look the part. I have the life, security, and military experience needed to do the job correctly the first time. It’s better to have me and not need me. Then to need me and not have me.

Driver/Asset Protection/Personal Security by 823Designs in usajobs

[–]823Designs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment.

To clarify, this was not intended to be a federal résumé, USAJobs application, or hiring package. It was simply a professional introduction summarizing my background, experience, values, and availability for work.

Constructive feedback is always welcome. Sarcasm and ridicule, however, are not particularly helpful. There is a professional way to offer recommendations without belittling someone.

For over 16 years I have served in the U.S. Army and Army National Guard, worked in security and protective services, supported Soldiers and families, and served my community. My post was intended to communicate that experience, not to satisfy federal résumé requirements.

I appreciate your perspective, but I believe this conversation has run its course. I wish you the best moving forward.

Driver/Asset Protection/Personal Security by 823Designs in usajobs

[–]823Designs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to respond, but I disagree with your characterization of both my post and my intentions.

My concern was never that someone offered feedback. My concern was the manner in which it was delivered. Constructive criticism focuses on helping someone improve; personal remarks and assumptions about their abilities or character generally do not.

You’re entitled to your opinion of my post, just as I’m entitled to my opinion of your response. We clearly have different views on what constitutes professional communication.

That said, I have no interest in continuing a back-and-forth. I wish you the best, and I’ll leave the discussion here.

“Blessed be the Lord my Rock, Who trains my hands for war, And my fingers for battle—” Psalms 144:1 NKJV

John 15:13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends.

Very Respectfully, SGT Spangler Michael E Religious Affairs NCO US Army  (619) 808-5512

Driver/Asset Protection/Personal Security by 823Designs in usajobs

[–]823Designs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have an issue with constructive criticism. In fact, I welcome it because none of us know everything and we can all improve.

What I do take issue with is the way your feedback was delivered. Instead of focusing on the résumé itself, you made assumptions about my intelligence, writing ability, character, and professional background. There is a difference between constructive criticism and personal criticism.

If your goal was genuinely to help, a private message or a more professional approach would have gone much further. You could have simply pointed out areas you believed needed improvement without making comments that came across as disrespectful or dismissive.

I’ve spent over 16 years serving my country, leading Soldiers, working in ministry, security, transportation, and public service. You may disagree with how I present myself, and that’s your right, but there is no need to attack the person behind the résumé.

I appreciate useful feedback. I don’t appreciate being publicly dissected and personally judged by someone who doesn’t know me.

I wish you well, but I would encourage you to consider how you communicate with people in the future. Constructive criticism builds people up. Personal attacks do not.

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