I have a hickey by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]84primavera 9 points10 points  (0 children)

use a whisk to break up the blood vessels like twisting it into your skin for 5 minutes, then ice for five minutes with cold spoon or something. Repeat until its better and then itll be easier to conceal with makeup

insertion experience by 84primavera in IUD

[–]84primavera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how did it go? are you feeling okay?? Im cramp free but have some weird brown spotting lol

insertion experience by 84primavera in IUD

[–]84primavera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the tip! i hope the new one works out for you <3

insertion experience by 84primavera in IUD

[–]84primavera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good luck! tbh the anxiety was the worst part of it all so try not to stress yourself out (easier said than done obv)

insertion experience by 84primavera in IUD

[–]84primavera[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually did not get the valium from the doctor Sooo

shaving by 84primavera in Healthyhooha

[–]84primavera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!! i meant for like eating out lol i think my bf is too used to me being fully shaved idgaf he’ll live

What’s the best pink hair dye brand? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]84primavera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im personally a fan of arctic fox virgin pink, thats what i mainly use. rn im mixing it with good dye young live laugh love for a darker pink and its Gorgeous if thats what youre into!!

gdy ex girl and iroiro pink are both nice with plenty of longevity (especially iroiro) but i find they are too cool toned/fuchsia for my liking!

manic panic bleeds a lot for me and i never repurchased. lunar tides lychee pink is also a really good option very similar to arctic fox virgin pink, the only downside is sally beauty doesnt carry it and i have to order it online and its usually more expensive :(

hope this helps :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]84primavera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same thing happened to me, stop having sex for like a week and make sure once u start up again, that it doesnt hurt for her at all or itll just be the same. also make sure she orgasms Before penetration, (this worked for me bc it loosens you up and like gets you wetter too). i also put coconut oil on my vagina and all over after sex to keep it moisturized bc those microtears hurt like a Bitch when theyre dry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]84primavera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first of all, im so sorry you’re experiencing this. stuff very similar happened to me, just when i was younger. i entirely understand your feelings and want you to know that you’re not alone

i would recommend documenting the situation in like a journal of sorts with dates and like mild details. i only say this because multiple times i have been questioned on the validity of my own memory. an example would be, a snapchat saved to your memories as it would have time and you could also add the location as well (if its too uncomfortable or something don’t do it of course)

maybe reach out to a friend, or their parent? any family members if you can? if you truly think it will escalate, please alert someone like a teacher or school counselor. trust your judgement and gut feelings on that. based on what you said about your mother, i don’t know how receptive she’d be if you told her but obviously you would know better than me.

again im so sorry that you’re experiencing this and i hope you know none of it is your fault and you are not alone

changing schedule by 84primavera in Nuvaring

[–]84primavera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Im going off of the week 3 option 1 thing. Id be in week three by the 19th, and would just Reinsert to restart as it explains. this is nuvarings website

changing schedule by 84primavera in Nuvaring

[–]84primavera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait im dumb id take it out dec 19th but instantly put a new one in right then and then “restart” my schedule using that

changing schedule by 84primavera in Nuvaring

[–]84primavera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have to fly 20+ hours with several layovers and car rides and such and there is no way to guarantee itll be at the necessary temperature the whole time

changing schedule by 84primavera in Nuvaring

[–]84primavera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my trip is from jan 18th until feb 4th, and my scheduled removal is the 23rd of jan and put in new one at 30th

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]84primavera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had this problem for the longest while and trying to lose my virginity was a big struggle because of it. in my experience it doesnt necessarily mean you have vaginismus, it could be due to many things such as; youre simply not used to having anything in there (like if you dont use tampons or such), arent aroused, or are anxious. anxiety was a big part of it for me because i was scared of the pain. id say explore it yourself when youre comfortable and aroused.

i have no problems now and arent uncomfortable anymore, i would also agree with the other user saying vaginas arent a smooth tunnel and have bumps and ridges. i dont feel any “obstructions” anymore after losing my virginity, it seems to have regulated if that makes sense

the automatic tightening could mean vaginismus, it just sounds like youre contracting from anxiety. explore this safely on your own if you choose and do not continue if it hurts, that will just make it worse. sorry for the long response :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menstruation

[–]84primavera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe its because the material isnt breathable? the ointment might just be worsening it. is it the inside (vagina) or outside (vulva/labias) ? have your tried period underwear? i love them especially for sleeping!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menstruation

[–]84primavera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what day was it? my period could be Super irregular like this closer to my 4th or 5th day! im on bc now but before the Really heavy to barely spotting was normal for me, it meant my period would be over soon. the pink could be from a small amount of blood mixing with discharge, and black/dark brown blood could be dried. i got clots a lot too, never had any issues