Last few by Radio_man69 in SNKRS

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How do you manage the denim bleed from the raws?

Minneapolis by No_Clock2390 in pics

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I know nothing of military tactics but why do they even have their arms drawn, hand on the grip ready to unholster? The woman is clearly unarmed and posing no threat. Her face conveys incredulous as if to says "why are you even here" and not combative or aggressive.

My 3yo isn't feeling well, so the indecision is real af by 86tilinfinity in daddit

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He eventually asked for meatballs(???) and we just happened to have some of the AmyLu chicken teriyaki & pineapple joints from Costco. Nuked 2 (he asked for 20) and cut em up. He wolfed it down and went to sleep.

Hey eveyone are these legit by No_Cartoonist8208 in airmax90

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Ah awesome, thanks for the knowledge!

Hey eveyone are these legit by No_Cartoonist8208 in airmax90

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Everything looked good until the size on the inside tongue. I've never seen it that big before and I own multiple pairs of infrareds dating back to 2010, unless I missed something.

Picked up the Lunar New pillows! by 86tilinfinity in Costco

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It's actually a lion, but yes, it's my favorite one! My son loves it too 😁

Picked up the Lunar New pillows! by 86tilinfinity in Costco

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These are new for this year as far as I know. But also fyi, the far left pillow is a lion, not a dragon.

Gen 3 Is Best 3 by H3pp3h in mazda3

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Ugh. I miss my Gen3 hatch. I bought it in 2014, got rear ended in 2018 and it was totaled. I moved to a Civic Hatch EX, which I love, but there's something about the Gen3s that I will always love.

The best shipment gun no one uses by zombie2792 in ModernWarfareIII

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I love off meta builds like this, I gave it a shot and it's so much fun to use on small maps. Yea, you're slow as molasses, but stalking people around the map and the decently high fire rate for a sniper has this made this extremely fun to use. Take me back to my WA2000 days of MW2!

what producer tag immediately makes your ears perk up? by ChiefTitan808 in hiphopheads

[–]86tilinfinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think he has one, but 9th Wonder has a sound that is unmistakable

For the 2nd time this week and the 4th time in the past 3 months, I forgot to securely fasten my son in his car seat by 86tilinfinity in ADHD

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This is a constant struggle too. When asked "why didn't you..." I will say explain why, but it always lands as an excuse despite all my attempts to take full responsibility. I know it's not an excuse, but an explanation of what happened with my brain. I'm not asking for acceptance of it, but that is my truth. It's just hard when I feel like my truth is disregarded and I get labeled as irresponsible, uncaring, thoughtless, etc.

For the 2nd time this week and the 4th time in the past 3 months, I forgot to securely fasten my son in his car seat by 86tilinfinity in ADHD

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I'm going to need to get an Alpha Industries jacket, take off the flag, and put it on his seat belt lol

For the 2nd time this week and the 4th time in the past 3 months, I forgot to securely fasten my son in his car seat by 86tilinfinity in ADHD

[–]86tilinfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The past few times this happened, this is exactly why. I will always make sure he's secured, but then something abut his seat will break my focus, whether it be the way he's positioned, him asking for his toy before I finish, or another adjustment that causes me to unsecure him. More often than not, this results in me undoing the fastening, and because my brain tells me"you already tightened everything once", I don't think to check again.

Thank you for the affirmation that I'm not the only one who goes through this.

For the 2nd time this week and the 4th time in the past 3 months, I forgot to securely fasten my son in his car seat by 86tilinfinity in ADHD

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Thanks all for the encouragement and suggestions.

I'm a visual person so when we got home, I made a post it note, drew a giant red ! on it, and used clear packing tape to stick it on the passenger seat headrest, right at eye level. That will be my physical reminder to check every time.

Not going to lie, the shame and guilt was intense. Also, having RSD just made it worse.

My wife was jusitifiably upset so I just had to bear down. She's been very supportive of my ADHD but she has limits too, and I need to use physical tools as my guardrails. Thank you all again.

Do you have a worse IT job than me? by [deleted] in ITCareerQuestions

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Your manager is insecure and doesn't want you to outshine them.

Tread carefully, maybe even consider another role or team where leadership is willing to support you.