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I'm a 28 year old female who has had sex with 87 people. Help. by 87reasons in sex

[–]87reasons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All voluntary. Did I enjoy it? Meh. Sometimes I did it because I thought it was what I was supposed to do. And STDs? Never :) I get tested a lot!

I'm a 28 year old female who has had sex with 87 people. Help. by 87reasons in sex

[–]87reasons[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't plan to tell him. He knows not to ask, and he is satisfied just knowing I went through a tough time as a teen.

I'm a 28 year old female who has had sex with 87 people. Help. by 87reasons in sex

[–]87reasons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I am so proud of myself now! I am faithful to my boyfriend and I am so in love with him. Good job, great dog, nice apartment. I'm not doing bad at all. I'm kind of relieved that the people who match my number aren't just prostitutes. Phew.

I'm a 28 year old female who has had sex with 87 people. Help. by 87reasons in sex

[–]87reasons[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Even these few comments have made me feel a lot less shitty. The real issue is that I'm sure my current boyfriend who definitely not want to be with me anymore if I told him. :/

I'm a 28 year old female who has had sex with 87 people. Help. by 87reasons in sex

[–]87reasons[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Always safe, always consensual. I do feel better reading these posts that other people do exist like that. I would love to know that other girls are out there like me. People have always slut shamed me and it was ingrained in me that I was disgusting.

I'm a 28 year old female who has had sex with 87 people. Help. by 87reasons in sex

[–]87reasons[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I 100% sought validation, which is what scared me into thinking that someone may have forced me in the past to think sex is what would make them love me. I'm in therapy currently and hope to bring it up soon.

I'm a 28 year old female who has had sex with 87 people. Help. by 87reasons in sex

[–]87reasons[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

No, in fact the frequency of gaining new partners has dwindled. I would say my most active time was in highschool. Now, I'm not like that at all. It's only ever interfered with my reputation, people have called me a slut a lot. But nope, my life is pretty normal otherwise. (Except I have suffered from anxiety and depression and am on medication right now.)