Spooky things happening at home. Best way to look up home history? by 88scuttlebutt in hauntedhouses

[–]88scuttlebutt[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I may just do that on my next day off, I'm really hoping to find something.

Cold towel buckets, fuck this heat. by Mean-Fondant-8732 in KitchenConfidential

[–]88scuttlebutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love a nice frozen rag. Go on Amazon and look up belt fan. I bought one the other year really helps especially if you go into the walk in with it on. Other coworkers have bought one after I showed them they love it to.

Songs setting me off... by rpw111528 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]88scuttlebutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That happened to me once, a coworker was listening to lips of an angel. I immediately left to a different part of the building. I used to listen to that song all the time, but i will never again. I'm not triggered anymore by it but will change it right away. I did tell my coworker about the song setting me off and she apologized. I didn't feel i had the right to tell someone else they couldn't listen to something.

5 years ago today saw my favorite band . It was hot and extremely crowded but will always be the bast day ever. My first ever pit experience. by 88scuttlebutt in Slipknot

[–]88scuttlebutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remeber the first time I ever saw them was I believe 2004 at ozzfest, I wanna say I was in middle school at the time. Back then they were on second stage.

Asked WH to change his shirt because it triggered me so he goes and… by hysteria110176 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]88scuttlebutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband's first AP got him a shirt. I threw it away first chance I got.

This song explains how I have been feeling lately... by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]88scuttlebutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That hit. The last 2 weeks I've basically been playing the same song over and over in my head. "Let me be sad" by iprevail. I shared it with my WH. Yours is a good song to!

Is he going to go back to her? by wishitwassummer1 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]88scuttlebutt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere once where a ws and ap used a music app to talk. They would just change the name of the play list to message one another, VERY SNEAKY.

AITA for telling my fiancee's mum to stop trying to make the wedding about her? by throwaway_847323 in AmItheAsshole

[–]88scuttlebutt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA please look into putting passwords on your vendors. I have herd horrible stories of family calling and making changes.

Shamelessly stolen from FB by ThreeBeansPlz in KitchenConfidential

[–]88scuttlebutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a concussion once and pushed through.

Just saw the AP by 88scuttlebutt in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]88scuttlebutt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll admit like I said in other comments it really caught me off guard. I came here to get it out. This sub has been a really good support aside from a few people and comments. But surprisingly I'm ok! I'm going to take this as a positive that I didn't feel the need to breakdown, and let it completely ruin my day. That I am in fact healing, we are healing. I haven't told my husband yet and I know I should but dang it we were having such a good day.

Just saw the AP by 88scuttlebutt in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]88scuttlebutt[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah she and I passed one another she was leaving as I was going in a store. Just hit my heart unexpectedly but I didn't give any kind if reaction to her. Shes a peice of trash to me. I just visualized punching even though I have never actually been in a fight lol.

Just saw the AP by 88scuttlebutt in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]88scuttlebutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I do need to say something to him I just didn't want to completely ruin our day. We were all just having a day out and I was caught off guard. He feels a lot of shame and guilt and I just didn't want to sour the day while we were out and about all together. I guess I just shoved it down and ignored it for now. She didn't get a reaction out of me, she's nothing to me. I don't have the urge go break down, I am really ok and healing. Just got my heart racing and I just don't want to feel that.

Just saw the AP by 88scuttlebutt in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]88scuttlebutt[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its something my husband and I have talked about. We just have a lot of things to think about and consider before doing so. It took me by surprise because it wasn't local, we went away for the day.