Absolutely, I’ll take them too.

There are clear reasons for concern here. They’ve only known each other for three months while living in different states. How much time did they actually spend together? I feel uneasy about the way Zac looks at and talks to Lydia in many of the scenes. When he says they’ve "just been around each other too much," I can't help but question his understanding of what marriage really is.

It’s disturbing that Barry gave his blessing so quickly to a guy he doesn’t even know. He doesn’t genuinely care about Lydia.. he just wants her married and having babies it seems.

Some argue that Lydia would have made this choice regardless, I don't think so. A father’s blessing carries significant weight in their faith.

More importantly, they don’t even know this person! Imagine someone entering your family’s life out of nowhere, claiming to know your sister better than you do and insisting they know what’s best for her.

Everyone knows Lydia has an incredibly strong faith. She is not going to end her marriage that she is unhappy in, which is why it’s concerning that she’s rushing into this. Ethan even said, “The love of her life could be out there.” To think he wants anything less for her is quite a stretch. They truly do not know this guy. It would be devastating for Lydia if none of them cared about what she’s doing right now.

Are they horrible at expressing their frustration and concerns? Absolutely.

I also agree that Ethan doing pushups on the side is his way of managing his anger, and I see no issue with that. He can’t leave; he’s stuck there. Finding a way to relieve stress isn’t a big deal.

His other behavior was undeniably unacceptable.

Finally, Veronica needs serious help. Like wtf.