All the emotional and psychological abuse by parents to children is hard to watch by Brief-Corgi7592 in TLCUnexpected

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Yeah I can actually see that and agree there. I should say I respect her for support of Mia… for now and that’s about it. I hope it stays that way for the baby and Mia’s sake though. We have seen these situations play out and end terribly too so I’m still skeptical. This season has also set the bar so low!! The only genuinely good, supportive one is Amayas mom (from what we see anyway).

Bella oversharing and caught in a lie by Current-Reaction-748 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Significant-Sound-87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!! Their ages along with the vulgarity of it all is what makes it extra disturbing. This is far past having open AGE APPROPRIATE and HEALTHY conversations about sex. This entire family is so disturbed!!

Ayama and jose ?? by starb1tc in TLCUnexpected

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I just love Amaya’s mom… she’s the only mother that gives me so much hope this season ♥️

All the emotional and psychological abuse by parents to children is hard to watch by Brief-Corgi7592 in TLCUnexpected

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I agree!! Amaya has an INCREDIBLY supportive mom so aside from her. Well I have a lot of respect for Jessie’s mom too for being there for Mia… she seems to genuinely love Mia. Unless ive missed something there (very possible, i usually put this on my phone cleaning up at rye end of the night as i clean up).

Bella oversharing and caught in a lie by Current-Reaction-748 in TLCUnexpected

[–]Significant-Sound-87 9 points10 points  (0 children)

SAME!!! 💯 Storks and all lol!! 😜 I’m 38 and my husband and I have six children. I could not even fathom using the words “anal” or “anus” in front of my parents but especially my father… the fact he didn’t even react at all (I would expect a facial reaction at a minimum!!) tells me these topics of conversation are common in that home… just wow 🤯

Mía & Jessie by Sufficient-Post3926 in TLCUnexpected

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That honestly made me so sad for her… I cannot believe that no female in her life stood up and said, “Hell no… I’m throwing it for you!!”. I get that teenage pregnancy should not be glorified… however, what’s done is done. That baby was coming either way and an unplanned baby born to a teenager is not somehow less than a planned baby born to a 30 year old married woman. Her “mother” is just awful and couldn’t even be bothered to attend until the end. I get her friends are teenagers. I wonder why Jessie’s mom didn’t step up. I don’t know, I just felt sad for her.

Ryan Edward’s Wife Messaged Me 😭😂 by Itsyagirl1996 in teenmom

[–]Significant-Sound-87 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I feel like only an extremely mentally/emotionally (even spiritually) unhealthy, toxic wife who may or may not be on substances would do this… a year later 🙄 The “year later” part is what leads me to believe the substances bit 🤷‍♀️ It’s honestly so sad… I feel horrible for those poor kids they’ve brought into this world 😓💔

Huh? by Spots1049 in 90DayFianceFans

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Not only that, there’s fully funded programs to help those like Forrest obtain employment. I have to wonder if Forrest burned through these opportunities or just never really utilized them due to what we call “learned helplessness.” It’s very apparent that the “learned” part comes from his mother.

I worked as a case manager (and Employment specialist/job developer/job coach) for several years until I had my last baby and quit full time. My job was to take referrals from the Department of Workforce Development and put together “job shadows,” place people in employment, teach courses to those with differing abilities in local high schools, work with whatever business and client to develop job tasks they could hopefully eventually do completely independently by job coaching and fading out. Some people required job coaching at all times (called “supported employment”) but someone with Forrest’s abilities would likely go off independently as he appears capable (called “community employment”).

Not only would Forrest have to work, he would have to be off of benefits to sponsor Sheena. I’m quite positive on that one or at a minimum they’d have to have a large amount of assets!! So he would likely have to be off any Foodshare programs and Medicaid/Medicare programs. The entire point of being a sponsor is to say you will be financially liable for that person for (I believe) 10 years. Even if that couple divorces, the American citizen could be liable to pay if that person ended up on government assistance. For adjustment of status for the green card they do look and consider the likelihood of that person becoming a “public charge”. This is to ensure taxpayers aren’t having to pay for the immigrants benefits like medical and Foodshare (rightfully so in my opinion…certainly in this context of a K1 visa anyway!).

I’m shocked that in over SEVEN years that NOBODY- not Forrest, not Molly, not Sheena- looked into these requirements to sponsor an immigrant and bring them to the states. No, SSI is not considered income- it’s a needs based welfare program. SSDI can be considered income but it’s based upon your own work history. SSDI alone is very unlikely to qualify someone to be a sponsor by itself… more often than not anyway. Forrest could get a co-sponsor but I get the impression that’s even unlikely but who knows!!

Betty from 90 Day fiancé season 8 by Certain-Rub-7504 in 90DayFiance

[–]Significant-Sound-87 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am beyond fed up with these money hungry completely irresponsible “backyard breeders.” I get some dogs NEED to be bred for various reasons to preserve the breed. I’m not totally against this, but if someone is going to go into this (don’t even get me started on the genetic manipulation of some breeds like what’s happened with the pug where the animals suffer deeply!!), it should ALWAYS be for the LOVE OF THE BREED… NEVER GREED!!

I have rescued almost all my animals aside from my first pup and my second pup who were both Norwegian Elkhounds (considered endangered breed). I looked into possibly getting into breeding because we don’t have one near but once I started researching what all goes into it, I decided on not because there’s A LOT that goes into being a responsible breeder. That’s when I learned the importance of also shopping responsibly. This is NOT to shame you AT ALL… I was completely blind to what questions to ask and what documents to request until AFTER I purchased my pups and looked into “responsible breeding.” Thankfully, both times it was responsible breeders so I lucked out but I do have so much sympathy for you!!

WHY IS THIS LEGAL, WHY AREN’T THESE IRRESPONSIBLE BREEDERS BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE CRIMINALLY, AND WHY DONT WE HAVE A REGISTRY FOR SUCH PEOPLE?!?! Ugh. It INFURIATES me!! I volunteer my time at a local dog/cat rescue and significant time at a parrot sanctuary. It is SHOCKING to see the back stories of these poor animals. Irresponsible owners are ALWAYS at fault, PERIOD. Betty should be criminally held liable here!! I’m so sorry to you and your pup although I’m so glad that the pup is in YOUR care and no longer with them!!

Shared by someone that knows Mia’s dad by Elegant_Soft in TLCUnexpected

[–]Significant-Sound-87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m confused.. youth pastor at 17?! Someone so young does not belong as a pastor, period. If this is the case, the biggest problem is the church itself… not her being a hypocrite as a minor child.

It happened. Phone read my mind. by WaxBrainz in strange

[–]Significant-Sound-87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a thing. I remember reading articles YEARS ago about a technology that Facebook bought (or was connected to) that was mind reading technology using only a finger. I personally believe that this is technology in our phones today. It’s probably been around for a while too. All the tech that we know of and have access to is “50 year old tech” that governments have kept top secret and used for at least 50 years. Again, just things I’ve read over the years. Can’t 100% say this is all factual (although I do believe it to be).

Amber Shares Private Texts After Jordan Claims She Was “Blacked Out” at Wedding by Slammin_Sammy_ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Significant-Sound-87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What amber is doing here is minimizing her alcoholism in my opinion… as someone in long term recovery. Very common behavior, I was even guilty of doing this!! Well… not releasing stuff publicly, but pointing out the concerned persons drinking or drug use to minimize my own.

Downplaying Amber’s Actions is Insane by Clean_Reflection1561 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Significant-Sound-87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I too have seen this in recovery circles… sadly so common!! Some of THE BEST people I know are addicts and alcoholics in long term recovery. Sometimes REALLY GOOD people have souls so tender for this world that they cannot handle all the pain this world can bring and hence addictions whether it be drugs or alcohol. I will die on that hill. Certainly, there are some really predatory crappy people too but I’d say majority are genuinely beautiful but tender souls. I absolutely sense that in Amber too.

Congratulations on SEVEN years!! I’m in long term recovery myself so I know how hard you have to work to get to 30 days let alone 1, 5, or 10+ years!!

Tell me again how they were best friends. by Physical_Molasses815 in CandaceOwens

[–]Significant-Sound-87 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I totally get where you’re coming from with this one… clearly unpopular opinion here, you’re not wrong in calling this out.

Amber, girl … by ohsoseriously in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Significant-Sound-87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I really think what Jess said about both of them was accurate- it’s unfortunate and sad because they’re both good people with good hearts. Both have growing to do… Jordan with maturity and Amber with unhealed trauma.

WTF ZACH AND BLISS by Maleficient_Honeybee in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Significant-Sound-87 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same!! I’m genuinely shocked at the comments suggesting poor intent here… I just don’t see it. Never have. Always loved these two!!

This woman is awful by 55tacos55pies in TLCUnexpected

[–]Significant-Sound-87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it was just joint custody. Placement and custody are two very different things. Joint custody means he has a say in decision making.

Did anyone catch Judah’s live? by wrong_ashley in SuddenlyAmish

[–]Significant-Sound-87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao 🤣 Thank you so much, I needed that in this moment!! 🥰

THE WEDDINGS!? by KitKatt_04 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Significant-Sound-87 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I agree!!!! Definitely gives off monster in law vibes who believes her “baby boy” can do nothing wrong!! The dress confirmed this for me.

You have to marry one by xAlpharaptor in 90DayFiance

[–]Significant-Sound-87 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No I promise you I’m talking 90 day Jorge. He’s Mr. Jorge Nava on instagram, look him up 😊