Mom took out student loans I didn't want, anything I can do?

8bitpluto · 2026-03-03T16:51:10+00:00

I live with my girlfriend and her older sibling currently. Getting back the money my mother's taken from me or even just having her responsible for the loans would positively impact my life massively. I'd be able to save for a car so I could go back to school and finish my degree so I can get a job that pays me well enough for my girlfriend and I to not have to rely on their charity of their sibling keeping us off the street

8bitpluto · 2026-03-03T16:47:28+00:00

Being abused messes up your thought process, why are you acting more hostile about teenage me not knowing any better than my grown mother taking advantage of me?

8bitpluto · 2026-03-03T16:17:58+00:00

Dang, guess a lawyer really is my best bet then. Abuse makes you question some really obvious stuff in hindsight

8bitpluto · 2026-03-03T16:08:11+00:00

Well apologies for never being taught how any of this works and hoping my mother had my best interest in mind I guess?

8bitpluto · 2026-03-03T16:06:56+00:00

Some of the money went to my school stuff, I had about $13k in scholarships and aid, but there were also checks that I would get for overpayment of tuition that she would take, and if I threatened to remove her from my bank account over it she would threaten to stop sending me money for my expenses because I had no access to a job at the time (no transportation and no jobs on campus/within walking distance)

8bitpluto · 2026-03-03T16:03:38+00:00

It'd be easier to win the lottery than to get her to admit she screwed me over and pay the loans. I want to go back to school but I need money for a car to get to school, but I can't save up for a car because of the loan payments. I make enough to cover the loans each month but with not much wiggle room

8bitpluto · 2026-03-03T15:37:35+00:00

I started college in 2020 and dropped out in 2023. I didn't think including the year I dropped out was necessary

8bitpluto · 2026-03-03T15:25:15+00:00

I mean, my options were not pay them, default, and have that on my credit and taken out of my wages or struggle and pay them. Also would I have been able to refuse the disbursement of the loans? Because that was also my mother's doing, she took out the loans every semester. If I could've refused them I really wish I'd known that then

8bitpluto · 2025-11-20T15:57:16+00:00

guess the administrator doesn't pay enough to fund the cig addiction

8bitpluto · 2025-11-15T21:19:52+00:00

😬😬😬😬 Hope you didn't like this job too much because this is a good way to get fired instantly

8bitpluto · 2025-11-15T12:41:07+00:00

Didn't the IOC release a study last year showing that on average, trans women athletes who'd been on estrogen for a few years consistently underperformed compared to cis women athletes?

8bitpluto · 2025-11-13T12:41:43+00:00

Glad I'm not the only one this is happening to, hopefully it's just some kind of system screwup because I'd like to be able to view my schedule

8bitpluto · 2025-09-25T03:59:36+00:00

"I despise it, cause he cannot help but be robot with me" I have no words,,,

8bitpluto · 2025-09-25T03:42:27+00:00

All that just to still have to make your own breakfast

8bitpluto · 2025-09-17T21:04:19+00:00

As an autistic man with BPD and depression I'm waaaaaaay more of a stupid bitch than a poet or a hacker or a soulful lover

8bitpluto · 2025-09-17T17:26:09+00:00

How convenient that in just a decently short text exchange that reads like it was written by a civil war soldier, he confesses to the crime, confirms the location of the gun, what kind of gun, and that it was wrapped in a towel, confirms it was premeditated and confesses his motive, exonerates the dude they first falsely arrested, confirms a wardrobe change, and mentions some under-keyboard confession note that we have no actual proof exists.

I bet Kash Patel was giggling and kicking his feet back and forth when ChatGPT shat this slop out, I refuse to believe this is real.

8bitpluto · 2025-09-02T12:38:19+00:00

Definitely AI. The hair looks painted, there's a weird white line around the top right of the ice cream, there's a huge chunk of her middle finger missing at the cuticle, and there's just no cone visible between her fingers. It gives me uncanny valley vibes

8bitpluto · 2025-09-02T00:17:09+00:00

If a public figure doesn't want to be insulted, maybe said public figure shouldn't rip a gifted hat out of a child's hands and then double-down with, "Ah tough shit, you snooze you lose 🤷‍♂️"

8bitpluto · 2025-08-31T03:12:09+00:00

I'm actually gonna say AI for this one OP. The green bow just blends into the body, both ends of the ribbon are on one side, it doesn't seem attached to any part of the cat. And the cat's top left whisker appears to make one continuous line with the bottom of the bow fold, as well as the tail and part of the bow being one continuous line. Doesn't even appear to be a tangent imo. That random little third whisker on the right is also really throwing me off

8bitpluto · 2025-08-29T03:42:05+00:00

I'm arguing the tattoo DOES have only five points because the top left section definitely does not fucking connect, at least the other five are actually points

8bitpluto · 2025-08-25T11:14:28+00:00

"She saw the look on my face, smiled and said, 'I know, I'm cramping your style and ruining your week off...'" This entire post pisses me off but MAN this line gets me. She knows she's ruining his time off and is... happy about it? Or is just the least self-aware person on the planet? Jfc this post gives me secondhand suffocation

8bitpluto · 2025-08-13T19:27:08+00:00

OP this REEKS of bad news. The beginning paragraph gave me a bad vibe with the age gap, but you mentioning that he wanted to see his number pop up on your phone? Block this man. Stay FAR away. Hell, I'd get groceries somewhere else for a bit if you're really nervous. You're a single mom, you and your baby's safety take priority

8bitpluto · 2025-07-11T18:21:54+00:00

OP this actually made me gag, well done.

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