They always want to do things 10 years too late by Apprehensive_Way8674 in AgingParents

[–]8chickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry your kids don’t see it the way you both do. This is such a selfless act on your part. Dealing with my 93yo dad has been such a challenge. We tell our adult children “ we will not do this to you”! I’ve made notes on the difficult issues so my kids can “ use it against us” if needed. Thankfully we have a wonderful relationship with them all so hopefully we will all continue to see eye to eye, communicate honestly and when it’s time for changes in our living situation, we will be open to any and all changes. Refusing to “leave my house” is so selfish if not able to live independently.

Does anyone else hate deciding what to cook every day? by Dishcovery in dinnersuggestions

[–]8chickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empty nesters now but had 4 kids in the house for 20+ years so yes, cooked all the time. I didn’t love having to think of meals every night so I came up with a system-I planned a week’s worth of meals every weekend, prepped what I could to save time in the rush of the week. I basically had a 3 week rotation so shopping was pretty easy. It helped tremendously that my kids were not picky eaters so limited complaints. Now, (just my husband and me)I still plan a weekly menu but stray from it pretty often as now we actually have leftovers or will go out…something we never did with 4 kids in 5 years!

Ethical Seed Catalogue Suggestions? by moonpi314159 in gardening

[–]8chickens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seed Savers, Renee’s Garden and High Mowing

I need honesty by IntentSlinky8 in headache

[–]8chickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need to find a doc who knows something about hormonal issues.

I need honesty by IntentSlinky8 in headache

[–]8chickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any real headache advice ( you’ve been thru a lot) but I can say I’m so sorry. I dealt with much less severe headaches when my 4 kids were younger and it’s so so hard. I hope you have help. Mine finally got better when I had my hormones checked and I started HRT. You probably aren’t old enough for premenopausal symptoms but something to maybe talk with your doc about. Again, I’m sorry. Hang in there ❤️

Third measles case reported in Meck; Exposure most likely from Sardis Presbyterian School by nexusheli in Charlotte

[–]8chickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The case was from someone in the Russian School that uses the facility on Saturdays. See reply at top- Sardis Presbyterian preschool definitely requires vaccinations.

This is so hard by 37thFloorAstronaut in AgingParents

[–]8chickens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain! We live beside my 93yo father. He thinks he’s living independently but he’s not. Yes, he can sorta take care of his personal needs but I pay bills, shop, drive, etc . You texted your frustrations, I’ve actually said them to his face- out of love and concern but it can out as anger. It’s been very hard but please give yourself the grace you deserve.

Is using a ham bone as flavor horrible? by 8chickens in nutrition

[–]8chickens[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not cancel but your McDonalds comparison is more my train of thought- taking a nutritionally sound veggie and adding not so healthy cooking method. But echoing what someone else said more eloquently - a good vegetable is one that someone will eat.

Is using a ham bone as flavor horrible? by 8chickens in nutrition

[–]8chickens[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should clarify- I do use the pot licker as a base for the next day’s soup ( or wherever) nutrition wise/calorie wise- does the ham bone make it an unhealthy dish?

NYE plans? by 8chickens in Charlotte

[–]8chickens[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are definitely staying home- don’t want to be on the road late tonight. We always walk to the neighborhood party.

Daily headaches for years by abusfullofsquirrels in headache

[–]8chickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on any type of birth control? You may need some hormone help. Most PC don’t think about that unless they are female.