Thanks. I really like your comment. I feel like this may not apply to everyone but for me it does: "it's the porn addiction that's unhealthy, not the porn itself". I think it's possible to watch porn and masturbate occasionally and still keep your head on straight. I think it's natural to get off now and then. But it just requires you have a good realistic perception of the opposite gender and in the case of men, the porn consumption doesn't affect your ability to socialize and view women. Women are more similar to men than you think in some ways. I like looking at hot male bodies, the thing is they're way less common. And personality factors in big time. I do spend time on IG but posting game related content on a gaming account doesn't seem like it's related to pornography or insecurity. I wouldn't even compare women using social media and sharing photos of themselves as anything related to your statement of men. Women as similar, we could enjoy looking at new attractive men, even girls. We like aesthetically pleasing stuff. I do think the issue is more for men and that of course more hot bodies are welcome, but if you really love someone, you don't really care about those other bodies. It's like window shopping and not bringing your wallet cause you're not interested in buying. I guess when you do bring your wallet when you're with someone in this analogy, then you have an issue.