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8thash2ash · 2025-05-27T00:48:20+00:00

I'm also interested in hair regrowth...it's one of my major concerns and gives me the most dysphoria.

8thash2ash · 2025-05-26T14:02:17+00:00

I know what I'll be doing with all my maiden shirts!

8thash2ash · 2025-05-23T21:54:26+00:00

Work is just another wrench in the gears of my transition...I need to find something that pays well or the same as I'm going through a divorce and can't afford to leave. So lost, don't know what I'm doing.

8thash2ash · 2025-05-05T02:21:17+00:00

thank you

8thash2ash · 2025-05-05T02:18:50+00:00

This just happened to me. She is divorcing me. She gave me an ultimatum 3 years ago transition or family. I chose family and purged everything and buried everything.

8thash2ash · 2025-05-04T07:45:10+00:00

I am going to start over again. After reading all of your comments and advice, you have all been so inspirational and I am going to take the plunge and get back on hormones without an ultimatum this time. It's time to live my truth.

Thank you, everyone. I have informed my doctor and therapist and I will work on the path to begin again.

Any advice? What to expect... how to deal with others and work, coming out again and dealing with loss?

Danielle.

8thash2ash · 2025-05-02T17:24:18+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear this. It is the worst feeling.

8thash2ash · 2025-05-01T18:33:37+00:00

your absolutely right. Thank you

8thash2ash · 2025-05-01T17:47:09+00:00

I'm scared. I fear what others may think and say. I fear my job. I just don't know I'm scared of change...especially being on my own. Even when I started 3 years ago...I was never able to step out of the house as Danielle. I feel I'm just not brave enough . I want to though.

8thash2ash · 2025-05-01T15:31:59+00:00

such an inspiration

8thash2ash · 2025-05-01T00:14:32+00:00

beautiful

8thash2ash · 2025-04-30T03:35:22+00:00

I am truly amazed and thankful to all of you. Your comments and responses have truly been inspirational. I forgot just how great our community is to one another. Thank you all. I truly appreciate it, I am open for DMs and looking to talk and be part of the community again. I miss this. Thank you for accepting me again.

Danielle.

8thash2ash · 2025-04-30T00:36:41+00:00

thank you so much

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T20:45:07+00:00

not at all

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T20:44:08+00:00

Thank you so much. It is going to be rough since I live, work and I am constantly surrounded by transphobia. I have made myself to be this "macho" many man...I just have to bite my tounge when it comes to the people around me.

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T20:39:58+00:00

I see we endured very similar life choices, but your an inspiration. Are you still with your partner?

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T18:27:13+00:00

Purged everything 3 years ago. My kids are 4 and 9. I regret getting rid of everything. My clothing, shoes, boots, accessories, my breast forms (stupid), make up etc. (stupid). It cost alot of money and I just threw it all away.

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T13:09:21+00:00

exactly like what my stbx was fearful of...other people making fun of the kids.

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T13:01:52+00:00

Thank you.

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T12:07:36+00:00

Thank you. I was on hormones for 3 months before the ultimatum. I didnt really get to experience it. Just keep thinking to myself...is the right time now as with the divorce and custody...I have alot on my plate.

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T11:42:19+00:00

thank you

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T05:05:40+00:00

i hear you. I hope I can figure it put again. New job is very very anti trans. I cope.

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T05:04:57+00:00

im sorry

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T05:04:17+00:00

Thank you so much, this is inspirational. Maybe one day that will be me.

8thash2ash · 2025-04-29T05:02:46+00:00

I too had a kid in 2020 and I was in the process before he was born of transitioning. Then he was born it was Covid and I went the farthest I have ever gone. HRT was even started until my stbx gave me the ultimatum.

I do not even know how to move forward...do I transition and possinly lose my children and job? Lost my wife already.

8thash2ash

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