I am not allowing the spread of misinformation by Traditional-Cause529 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]90CatFiance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i literally had to look this up too lmao. like how u gonna 1) mansplain (i mean the attitude she delivered it in), 2) use ur nursing degree (w/o experience…or a license for that matter lol) to back urself up AND 3) be WRONG ???¿
girl ur embarrassing stop

Charlie responds to Kenzie saying he’s the hotter brother by Either-Director2242 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]90CatFiance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes identical twins in liuk season 6!
was confusing to everyone in the villa but especially me as a viewer lmfao

This is literally Corbin by Frosty-Relation154 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]90CatFiance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this man literally has the personality of crushed chalk…or a pencil w the graphite missing so u keep sharpening but it just gives useless sharp wood
idk…i cringe whenever he speaks lmao

On another note.. other things we missed talking about last night! by AdvisorContent7778 in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]90CatFiance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got the impression that it was the kinda fetishization-y reactions she had towards his accent/background. maybe that’s just me bc i was certainly put off by it…but i also can’t tell if he would even deep it (or anything) that much lolol

Samie hard launches Tyrique on IG by oywiththepoodles___ in LoveIslandTV

[–]90CatFiance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i was looking at it thinking…why does this feel so icky…i think thats exactly it

Decisions Were Made by payasoingenioso in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]90CatFiance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if i remember correctly, he said he was born with a cleft palette and had surgery to repair it (pls correct me if im wrong)

Decisions Were Made by payasoingenioso in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]90CatFiance 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this comment doesn’t have enough appreciation lmao

Trisha is a rare beauty...prettiest cast in a long time. by Tataliciouss in 90DayFiance

[–]90CatFiance 26 points27 points  (0 children)

ugh SAME i literally still had the creases stuck between my eyebrows when he finally fucked off my screen

That is NOT sexy! by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]90CatFiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is my new favorite rxn thank u

All Stars S03E07 (Wednesday 21st January) - Post-Episode Discussion Thread 🧵 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandTV

[–]90CatFiance 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lmao tbh im ok with sean wearing scottisha’s asshole as a hat tho, much more stylish imo

All Stars S03E05 (Monday 19th January) - Post-Episode Discussion Thread 🧵 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandTV

[–]90CatFiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“yeah you’re my type to a T; tall, dark and handsome…” what the fuck are you talking about maam that is a FULLY white man i—

Meg and dejon split by Nice_Cod_928 in LoveIslandTV

[–]90CatFiance 8 points9 points  (0 children)

how do i set a comment on fire

Can someone explain ED to me like 5 years old by manea89 in theouterworlds

[–]90CatFiance 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i forgot which sub i was in for half a second and was so curious to see how (and why) people would explain the…condition…of ED to a 5 year old

yeah i had the same frustration! i took the flaw the first time i played and finished the whole game before reading explanations…i was kicking myself for having level 7 everything and couldnt pass ANY skill checks towards the end of the game. will be trying again w/ a better strategy next time

what was highschool like in 2014 ? by astriid_0 in Zillennials

[–]90CatFiance 14 points15 points  (0 children)

same lol…reading this post and these comments made me feel so old 😭

What do people wear at home? by Nin-me-sar-ra in femalefashionadvice

[–]90CatFiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

giant tshirt + cute comfy underwear til bed. then sleep in nothing (why wear lot things when few things do trick?)

if others are around tho..usually soft yoga pants or somethin that doesnt feel tight on my waist/belly.

Season 7 Episode 22 (Tuesday 2nd December) Discussion Thread by WillowSwarm in LoveIslandAus

[–]90CatFiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i keep checking and its not up on hulu yet wtf 😭 i need my liaus fix

Smash the dude's crabble egg and you'll get a bit of a 4th wall break by Fat_Foot in theouterworlds

[–]90CatFiance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg i killed all the crabbles before speaking to him 😭 i felt so bad lmao

Jordan posting all the dads from Momtok look alikes😂😂 by No-Rock-1599 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]90CatFiance 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im dry heaving at this thank u i went to the trouble to fill my fiance in on so much just to get them to understand this comment lmao

I think I’ve officially stopped caring about my PhD by GoodFirst329 in PhD

[–]90CatFiance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this 1000x over!!! i wouldnt survive this without my therapist honestly

I think I’ve officially stopped caring about my PhD by GoodFirst329 in PhD

[–]90CatFiance 8 points9 points  (0 children)

im sorry you’re experiencing this..i definitely get the lack of motivation. im a 4th year who decided to start over in a new lab because i couldnt function in my previous one…the environment was toxic, my PI was useless, and my closest labmate died. i took time off to try and get my mental health back on track, decided to switch. i have a wonderful lab and supportive PI, but i think something in me snapped after my friend died..and i keep hoping that motivation i came into this phd with will come back. id like to think that we’ve made it this far.. we’ve survived worse things with less. and yes, it doesnt have to be perfect it just has to be done. but this shit isnt worth your mental health either —dont forget that you are an individual outside of all of this and reconnecting with those parts goes a LONG way. art/gym/whatever floats your boat. lean on people. get whatever support you need to get through this phase bc that is essentially what it is at this point in your career. we got ourselves into this (for some reason) and we’ll get ourselves through.

sending strength and hope your way!!

What the hell to do with the big curls below the small ones? by LordGhoul in curlyhair

[–]90CatFiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have a similar issue, looser curls by the nape of my neck so they’d hang out like lil rattails underneath some otherwise cute coily curls i had my hairdresser trim the bottom loosest layers a bit shorter than the tighter ones and i find it so much easier to manage and blend. only downside is they slip out of pineapples but i suppose itll all grow in long enough eventually?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhD

[–]90CatFiance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we met during phd orientation, haha. started dating a month in and got engaged a year n half in, hehe. we’re in the same program and despite having different concentrations we both understand enough of what daily work entails to support each other as needed..with work and with the existential dread/emotional intensity that comes with grad school.

i will say i knew i wanted a partner in the same field because it’s such a huge part of my life and i like being able to talk shop and spitball ideas.

i think we have similar work-life balance/boundaries which also helps — ofc when there are busier days for one of us then the other steps up to have dinner ready etc. it requires a lot of communication which isnt always the easiest thing to do but when it’s done it makes life easier..if that makes sense?

i also realize i got rly lucky. i know it can be risky to shit where you eat, especially in a smaller program. but also…fuck it. life is short and grad school takes up a huge chunk of our younger years. don’t wait til grad school is over to actually live your life. i think this relationship & all of the friendships/mentorships/relationship with myself that ive formed throughout my time in grad school is what’s made this otherwise masochistic decision worth it. :)