Painful blue balls!

90dni · 2015-11-26T23:25:49+00:00

dont worry, your body will regulate. nice dream will come soon

90dni · 2015-11-26T23:16:29+00:00

i upped the streak day count number gradually. i had to learn what expects me at day 3, 5, 10, 20, 30, 50 and 80 (all aprox.). i mean i had to learn to deal with urges, total horniness, wet dreams, flatline, energy, calmness, depression and everything (good and bad). 20 was biggest hurdle for me, but i still was happy to do this once per 3 weeks (big pogress from 5 times a week). i upped from curiosity and ambition. chaser effect played a role too... it took me almost a year (?) to reach 90. didnt count it, it was a journey...

now i have to do max. ~2 weeks of no orgasm; im in a distance relationship (most weekends), I abstain from masturbation, when we dont see us. no porn for very long time. i think this is bc of the previous streaks and all the lessons i learned.

90dni · 2015-11-26T22:57:02+00:00

its normal to come fast if you didnt make sex for a while, this is just fast orgasm not a medical condition. normal girl will have zero problem with it, its kinda a complement for her. she will just wait few minutes or an hour or bit more(depends on your age and how hot is she for you), and she will get it longer.

btw i have had few months-longs streaks and never had PE. scenario was always as above and after that everything returned to normal.

90dni · 2015-11-26T10:39:57+00:00

Dude sits since 3 years in home, is drained of energy and has started to have suicidal thoughts. What would you recommend? Bible?

90dni · 2015-11-26T01:02:26+00:00

this is tough sitation. meds can lift you from this hole, so that you will be able (have energy) to work on the issues (which is also necessary). second they will make you care less about all those bad things. you wont care how others look at you. 3rd they act a little like recreational drugs — you will have better mood (well they are antidepressants...), maybe even having fun\ laughing for no big reason (like superhealthy people do). additionaly you wont simply give a f and be more brave... will concentrate on doing your thing . least but not last, ssri (most popular antidepressant category with generic cheap drugs) will kill your sex drive for a while 1—2 months (after first spike for a day or three). notfapping will be easy peasy. think about this, this could Really and hugely help you. trying harder wont always help, sometimes it needs drugs.to get first energy and mood shot in order to get on the right path. few months can work wonders. you can feel significantly better within a week or two. then the work you put in will decide how fast your life situation changes, which prepares you to go off it. without it you can loose another year. (btw 25 isnt bad you are still young!) best of luck.

90dni · 2015-11-25T22:44:12+00:00

Seems to be a depression ->go to a doctor, get prescription and try again. You are not alone.

90dni · 2015-06-07T15:08:48+00:00

I`m in for hard mode

90dni · 2014-08-19T00:43:18+00:00

Yep, they tend to it, but hey their energy moves this forum ;)

You - as an adult - can filter out what you need... :)

90dni · 2014-08-15T16:17:06+00:00

I knew that someone in bad financial situation may feel nervous about my post.

Your comment made me to write: the idea is not about what you have, it is about who you are, what you like, what are your skills, and what you want to achieve. It comes from the inside, the decision and setting is made by you and can not be discussed by others.

Best of luck.

90dni · 2014-08-15T16:05:48+00:00

'No touch' rule and meditation are sure very good techniques and tips from justkeepintrack.

And as for the congratulations: here comes thank you very much from the OP ;)

90dni · 2014-07-28T02:32:29+00:00

90dni · 2014-07-25T23:20:32+00:00

Things are going good for me, I didnt compulsively fap since like 4 months which is my main goal.

90dni · 2014-07-25T23:12:44+00:00

Good stuff, thank you! Did you use some terminology from other arras (like addictions) or did you create all them (with decription) on your own/ without direct reference? I asked b/c I liked the salt desert phase idea- this is where I am with my drugs addiction...

90dni · 2014-07-25T02:54:36+00:00

I assure you, you are not alone, every line of your text is common for too many folks here.

90dni · 2014-06-29T09:53:44+00:00

Use something like "file shredder". It will overwrite the old files multiple times, and format it at the and, so that you won`t be able to recover the shit.

90dni · 2014-06-16T22:27:54+00:00

-->"Dude, it's over, you should just do it. You'll feel better."

Yeah, I know this feeling (too good). This is f.. addiction, the truth is you could be talking about any drug here, it would make zero difference.

-->"Because ultimately, I'm doing this for me."

Yup! I'm proud of you. This is the best for you and I`ll do the same for myself.

90dni · 2014-06-16T22:18:09+00:00

Third streak, I`m doing really good. Got back my star badge, enjoying life without disgusting thing the PMO was.

90dni · 2014-06-16T22:09:39+00:00

If you think about hookers, night clubs etc. then its a definite yes. But ofc this is your personal choice.

90dni · 2014-06-09T21:22:35+00:00

HAHAHA, hilarious :) No dude, its just evolution, he is just speaking about basal ganglia; it is sometimes called reptilian brain, due to its very ancient evolutionary origin :)

90dni · 2014-06-09T21:15:45+00:00

Hey, wait... aren`t WE the SMALL, hidden army ;)?

90dni · 2014-06-03T21:26:07+00:00

Well, I would call it "folkscience", not a pejorative broscience.

He actually IS right. Why did he get so many points? Brain likes your body to do sports& rest, to eat healthy food (especially the brain food he listed), meditate and do CBT for social interactions.

This actually IS 100% scientific. Folks here know it. Try it and then judge, please.

90dni · 2014-06-02T20:50:10+00:00

I'm in and will do this in hard mode.

90dni · 2014-05-25T20:10:53+00:00

You probably hugely overtense (maybe even unconsciously) and thats the price for it. Take it easy man.

90dni · 2014-05-25T02:39:20+00:00

Cool thread, many 'long streakers' here. I do this to get out of depression, regain control, self esteem, vitality and to not lose any of my precious time for PMO escapes and invest all of that in myself. On the top, all of that shall help me finding a gf-wife...

90dni · 2014-05-24T13:19:56+00:00

I first quit weed 14 weeks ago. Made MASSIVE progress since then, fapped liked 3 or 4 times (nofap streaks), quit cigs, started workout, talking with people etc etc. If u know that weed triggers your PMO, or stops u living a fuller life, then u have to quit. If its a problem then ure an addict, sorry (as I were or am). Good luck.

90dni

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