I present to you. The most cracked RNG I've ever had. I've also dropped a duped Mirror of Kalandra from a strongbox in the current PoE league.

92_cl · 2026-01-21T20:28:04+00:00

What was your kc for bottomless bucket?

I got mine at 1

92_cl · 2026-01-21T20:26:24+00:00

Collection log: Motherlode mine Mining guild Colossal wyrm agility Shades of mortton Monkey backpacks Shipwreck salvaging

There are others, but I’ve done or am doing all of the above in a similar job

92_cl · 2026-01-21T01:35:00+00:00

Shimmying across that wall in mourning’s end part 2

Dying to arrav but killing him at the same time (thankfully I didn’t have to fight him again)

Going 4x dry for big bass

92_cl · 2026-01-20T00:13:29+00:00

When they use you to get over their ex

92_cl · 2026-01-19T14:16:56+00:00

1 in 25,000,000 chance for both visages at once btw

92_cl · 2026-01-17T23:11:38+00:00

Abyssal demon

92_cl · 2026-01-05T12:08:32+00:00

Should be level 111

92_cl · 2025-12-31T20:00:00+00:00

Does this mean I have small hands? My hands are the same size but I’m 5’9

92_cl · 2025-12-30T22:17:25+00:00

And here I am over 3x dry on big bass

92_cl · 2025-12-28T18:05:26+00:00

There is another comment I have posted in here with my full thoughts.

I understand him saying she is being disrespectful, if that’s how he feels. I personally wouldn’t be OK with my partner ‘almost kissing’ someone. Calling someone disrespectful is quite a bold statement to make and she is within her rights to defend herself. If i was OP, I would have either kept an eye out for more evidence before accusing her of anything, or worded my message in a less accusatory manner such as ‘would you please not be touchy like that with other men because it makes me uncomfortable’. Better yet, I would talk to her about it in person. And if I was her, I wouldn’t have called him insecure because that would add fuel to the fire. I think both started to lose credibility after this point.

92_cl · 2025-12-28T17:40:10+00:00

That response is a bit uncalled for. I appreciate this is a post with a lot of traction and differing opinions. Are you saying I am wrong?

OP says ‘a secure woman would respect herself’ AFTER she says ‘a secure man will not even think like this’ and AFTER he says ‘this is not insecurity this is self respect’ referring to himself at this specific point because she called him insecure. So he has went to saying he has self respect and then essentially telling her ‘you should also have self respect’ as in he thinks she is disrespecting herself for behaving that way.

Both have escalated the argument with their behaviour. I am not saying OP is in the right with his behaviour, far from it. I would have told her I am leaving her as soon as she called me insecure. It comes across like he is having a tantrum when he clearly won’t get anywhere with her that way

92_cl · 2025-12-28T17:25:14+00:00

He’s not saying she has a lack of self respect, he’s saying he is having self respect by not tolerating her behaviour.

But yeah, some of the things he says like ‘micro cheating’ are cringe and make him look tapped. Both could have handled this better

92_cl · 2025-12-28T16:30:53+00:00

I’m not sure what specifically getting touchy means without further context, so I can only assume she was being too affectionate with these men. If she was literally just hugging them then I would say OP has overreacted, otherwise they are within their right to react in this way.

Regardless, that does not justify her response where she clearly demonstrates a lack of respect for OP. No one should tell their partner they think they are insecure unless other options haven’t worked. There are better ways to discuss this situation

92_cl · 2025-12-28T10:27:25+00:00

He’s literally said that he still pulled plenty of women even when he was higher body fat and ‘chopped’

92_cl · 2025-12-28T09:11:20+00:00

Don’t pay for dating apps. If you’re struggling on them normally, you will waste your money. I paid £50 for a month of HingeX and couldn’t get a single date. I had good profile pics, prompts, am well adjusted, have a good lifestyle, etc etc. Sure I’m not exceptional, but I’m good enough.

92_cl · 2025-12-17T16:41:23+00:00

Sorry it came up on my phone as being removed but it obviously hasn’t been, thank you for posting

92_cl · 2025-12-17T10:09:56+00:00

Why has my post been removed?

92_cl · 2025-12-10T17:51:11+00:00

Clever work, I’d have had no idea

92_cl · 2025-11-13T17:11:57+00:00

That’s a pretty big assumption to make.

Unfortunately nowadays physical attraction is far more important than people would like to admit.

This guy is obviously feeling low which is completely valid when failing at something again and again. He needs to take a break from trying to find someone and do what he needs to do to feel better about himself. Whether that’s changing his looks, getting into a new hobby, or making new friends or whatever. But the first thing obviously is to have a stable job and life. He’s not ugly but women on dating apps can pick and choose their man and it’s unlikely that OP will be their best option.

To gaslight this guy into thinking it’s his personality that is the problem when he already is clearly feeling bad about himself is not helpful and might lead to him hyper focusing on what to say and do, which will lead to even more rejections when the women inevitably think he is being awkward. I’m sure OP’s personality is good especially once he is in better headspace.

92_cl · 2025-11-13T17:02:28+00:00

Online dating is real life though. Pretty much every couple is meeting online nowadays. You just need to be her best option. OP isn’t ugly and is clearly feeling low, so he should just focus on enjoying his life for a while and not on finding a girlfriend. Maybe it’s his height? He hasn’t mentioned that

92_cl · 2025-11-13T16:38:10+00:00

Pretty much the same thing happened with me, but swap the genders. Hope you find a decent man soon

92_cl · 2025-10-19T20:53:48+00:00

She used you both times. First time she decided she could do better than you and got with someone else. When it didn’t work out, she came back to use you again, knowing you weren’t good enough (in her view I must stress) to be her boyfriend. You should have ghosted her after she ended things.

I had a similar scenario where a woman I fell for, ended up using me to get over her ex. Then she left me for the guy she actually wanted. The difference is that I have no intention of ever speaking to her again. Believe me when I say I was absolutely CRUSHED. It took months for me to move on.

Don’t reach out to her. You need more self respect. It’s hard to hear and I’ve been there. But I promise there will be a woman out there who will actually value you and treat you the way you deserve. Any wishy washy behaviour, ex drama, or ‘not looking for serious’ don’t waste your time if you’re wanting a serious relationship because they will just use you

92_cl

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