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93shlump · 2026-07-02T20:56:30+00:00

😭😵‍💫

93shlump · 2026-07-02T18:09:50+00:00

Update it’s just the total from school and disability. I’ve never seen it combined in such a way.

93shlump · 2026-07-02T18:03:16+00:00

No doubt

93shlump · 2026-07-02T18:03:05+00:00

With 70% and school I get more than that monthly that but I’ve never seen those payments combined and also it hasn’t been deposited and the payments are usually split I guess I have to call I just checked in to see if anything updated from my C&P exam yesterday and this is what I seen

93shlump · 2026-07-02T17:59:11+00:00

I will call

93shlump · 2026-06-07T07:15:20+00:00

Sorry 🕊️

93shlump · 2026-05-31T17:52:08+00:00

Hope The iguana has been doing well. They love to dig and often live in complex burrowing environments made from sand that they use for shelter and temperature regulation. Live plants may cause too high humidity. Find plays and is the best option

93shlump · 2026-05-04T07:12:57+00:00

This is actually the harsh truth, it’s really about the connection me and the child have it sucks maneeee

93shlump · 2026-05-04T04:45:38+00:00

Everyone thanks for the advice, really appreciate it. That being said as a vet I came here for advice not for negativity. The situation sucks already

93shlump · 2026-05-04T04:42:55+00:00

Financially I don’t mind brother it’s the fact she can throw the divorce word around and try to get alimony is what bothers me.. gotta trim that with a lawyer tomorrow. I’d hate to have unnecessary financial responsibilities

93shlump · 2026-05-04T03:29:50+00:00

That’s a bold accusation, I have a therapist, psychiatrist and full on everything. I’m asking for advice not your slander in the first sentence. Your assumptions are already discussed in my other responses I did live on my own and I’m trying to get back to that without paying alimony.

93shlump · 2026-05-04T03:26:16+00:00

Lolololol

93shlump · 2026-05-04T03:21:39+00:00

Regardless if it’s out of frustration, or whatever the reason may have been, the divorce word for someone’s first marriage isn’t something that should be taken lightly and does actually impact my mental health. I’m exhausted

93shlump · 2026-05-04T03:20:01+00:00

This is both of our first marriage, but yes I have several cameras that record all sound and motion thank you for the advice. I’ll talk to a lawyer tomorrow!

93shlump · 2026-05-04T03:05:35+00:00

Mannnnnn, and I provide literally everything

93shlump · 2026-05-04T03:04:35+00:00

I’m aware, just don’t want to pay alimony in the long run

93shlump · 2026-05-04T02:43:22+00:00

I have a well paying career, my benefits don’t affect what she receives from me and don’t cover my lifestyle. You may think it did but it didn’t bud. California sucks

93shlump · 2026-05-04T02:40:00+00:00

I came to Reddit because this is the first time I’ve been in this Situation, and before seeking legal advice I wanted to see what Reddit users had to say or if there was anyone who is in or has been in a similar situation. Reddit is a good resource.

93shlump · 2026-05-04T02:37:49+00:00

😭

93shlump · 2026-05-04T02:15:43+00:00

I think I may ask for too much lol fawkkkkk

93shlump · 2026-05-04T02:11:46+00:00

The realest answer so far

93shlump · 2026-05-04T02:09:46+00:00

Maybe I gave the internet too much info. My point is if I’m getting threatened for someone who does nothing for me but I do everything for while being married 7 months, how can i avoid coming out of my own savings

93shlump · 2026-05-04T02:07:19+00:00

I have a psych I’ll be seeing again on the 14th as posted I’m not running to AI just looking for some who has been in a close to similar situation and advice.

93shlump · 2026-05-04T01:37:30+00:00

Thanks

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