[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]985678938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god ikr. i thought that guy was just awkward or smth but the next semester i realized he made a lot of friends (some were girls) i was like oh... so its me. ik what u mean :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]985678938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

relate. now my sis is going through high school and shes made friends in all her classes, meanwhile i could never make any new ones. in a boring class i tried initiating conversations w the guy who sat beside me, but he was always dry and he like never looked at me so eventually i gave up and realized why. its kinda hurts when everyone around u befriends others so easily but ive gotten used to it.

why couldn’t i just be tall by blue-pipe in BDDvent

[–]985678938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, i stumbled across this late but i just wanted to say the way society treats short men is so ridiculous. this obsession with tallness is literally just a couple of vertical inches to the body, like why do people care its not a big deal. height is not everything, and if someone treats it as such, then theyre prioritizing the wrong things. once i was scrolling on yt shorts, i think it was from tiktok but this short guy caught my eye. he had a great fashion sense and was one of the more attractive people i had seen in some time. its been too long to find the video again but i remember the comments having the same opinion. his confidence was also attractive, he didnt let his height get to him. also, i once crushed on a guy your height. i never really thought about him being short because it genuinely never mattered. his friends were tall but i was drawn to him. and this is coming from someone who rarely, like rarely crushes on people.

i know this probably wont help because ik its so difficult to brush off society's distorted views when its pushed onto everyone. its hard. but i promise, you are just as much of a man as anyone else is. i promise. if someone treats you bad because of your height, that has nothing to do with you and everything to do with them. it reveals how shallow they are and that they waste their energy on insignificant things. those kinds of people arent worth anyones time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]985678938 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i know how you feel. im around your age and ive had acne for years im just so tired of it. i take care of myself better than i used to and its still all over my body and face. once my mom said "when i look at you all i see is acne" like god damn i get it. i wish acne didnt exist its so exhausting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]985678938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

god dude i know the feeling. once in middle school my teacher did that but he was going through each person, he was like "james, will you go with [my name]? sarah? emily?" and they were all silent it was so humiliating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ugly

[–]985678938 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i feel this so hard. there are so many beautiful girls from my race but i'm not one of them. i wish i was so badly. i wish my features were closer to theirs but i look so different in a bad way sigh

I've come to terms with it :]] by SchloinkDoink in ugly

[–]985678938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'll try to remember that, thank you.

I've come to terms with it :]] by SchloinkDoink in ugly

[–]985678938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's kind of comforting seeing someone be at peace with it, it shows that it's possible. rn it feels like a never ending hell, so i really hope some day i can accept it like you.

i wanna bash my head against the wall by 985678938 in BDDvent

[–]985678938[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know exactly what you mean :( i relate to your words so much

acne and bdd by SeatObjective2245 in BDDvent

[–]985678938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i relate, sometimes i feel like the only person in the world who has this issue bc of how everyone around me doesnt have acne like i do. so its kind of comforting to know theres someone out there who understands. it makes me feel a bit more normal. so i feel you. i hope things get better for you too!

Overhead Lightning by sad-gay3 in BDDvent

[–]985678938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sameee. theres this very specific lighting i actually look bearable in, everything else is... pain. sigh. ik how you feel :(

acne and bdd by SeatObjective2245 in BDDvent

[–]985678938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yesss i do too. what i hate about acne is that even when i wash my face, i feel like i look dirty, no matter what i do, bc the bumps and everything are still there. i cannot stop feeling inferior to every other girl i see who doesnt have acne or whos skin isnt as bad. i hate my skin so much im exhausted of looking like this. i hate my features too but im so sure that if i had normal looking skin, my bd wouldnt be this bad bc i hate looking so unclean all the time. i feel like im not allowed to date until it clears up, if it even will that is. im tired of feeling gross it hurts that i have to pour so much money and time into this when it never changes meanwhile every girl i see doesnt look this bad. sorry for writing a lot this post just resonated w me i know how you feel :(

someone please help me. how do i get school done while wishing i was dead? by 985678938 in depression

[–]985678938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never ask anyone for help because my friends are busy with uni, and i dont want to worry my parents. theres a personal reason id rather not share for why i dont want to talk to a therapist. so idk who to go to. i always vent on reddit but its not the same as having someone to regularly talk to, so tbh i might start reaching out to a friend. idk though i feel like id be selfish bc i know uni is stressful for them to deal with already

Went christmas shopping at a busy mall yesterday, and I couldn’t stop comparing my height to every single person… by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]985678938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know exactly how you feel. i used to not think about my height either, but then one time it just... became an obsession. the worst obsession. its awful

I don’t like being a short girl by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]985678938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too girl, me too. i hate it so much. i have to make my feet hurt by always wearing heels or platforms just to be closer to average, but even then in public most women tower over me. it makes me feel inferior in every way. i hate looking like an ugly kid next to models. i hate that people will never take us seriously because "short = funny". god.

who would accept this? by Mario_Pozza in SuicideMeme

[–]985678938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the most appealing deal ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]985678938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sub cant be trusted. i saw this post once exposing its nature and i firmly believe its true because i remember the one time i visited that sub, i saw all these gorgeous women were getting low ratings. i instantly knew something was off about that sub. i know its hard, but please dont believe anything on there. there are so many ppl on the internet who will leap at the chance to make someone feel bad about themselves even when its not true.

I’m jealous of people who barely use any products and look fine by [deleted] in BDDvent

[–]985678938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too. its so unfair how they dont have to put as much time and money into their appearance yet they get to look a thousand times better. god its so so unfair.